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Tarnicus: I wrote one of the three posts I intended to Suggestions for forum changes I am reconsidering my decision purely due to the overhwelming replies I have had via PM and in this thread. I am taking time, where able given my time being a bit more limited, to find a balanced path forward where I don't say "screw you guys, I'm going home" <3

Thank you all again for your replies, I'll get the next post written when I am able to.
Truly glad and relieved you're reconsidering, looking forward to reading your next posts and having you around, even if on a non-frequent basis. :-)
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Tarnicus: I wrote one of the three posts I intended to Suggestions for forum changes I am reconsidering my decision purely due to the overhwelming replies I have had via PM and in this thread. I am taking time, where able given my time being a bit more limited, to find a balanced path forward where I don't say "screw you guys, I'm going home" <3

Thank you all again for your replies, I'll get the next post written when I am able to.
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HypersomniacLive: Truly glad and relieved you're reconsidering, looking forward to reading your next posts and having you around, even if on a non-frequent basis. :-)
You are one of those lovely people who have considerably helped to sway my decision on this matter(I don't like picking an individual, as there are many) but we've can always be in touch by other means :)

What I find ironic and indicative of some of the issues on this site, is that the post I linked above was low rated in a matter of seconds(swiftly followed by uprepping to balance it out) and my reply of thanks for the acknowledgement of being noticed and thus downrepped in that reply, has also been lowly rated.

I wonder if people think that affects me? I mean sure I notice but I take it as a compliment unless I'm coming across as an arse, and therefore would down-rep myself at a later stage :P
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Tarnicus: I am reconsidering my decision purely due to the overhwelming replies I have had via PM and in this thread.
Really glad to know that, I learned about this thread of yours only yesterday and sadly had no time to add a comment before going offline, but believe me, you staying would be the best gift of all, Tarnicus. :)

EDIT: And, if that's OK, I'd like to add an extra vote on behalf of <span class="bold">K_1269</span>, he's one of our most generous givers and doesn't usually enter in any GA for himself, he certainly deserves to win Age of Wonders. :)
Post edited May 22, 2014 by Thespian*
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Tarnicus: I wonder if people think that affects me? I mean sure I notice but I take it as a compliment unless I'm coming across as an arse, and therefore would down-rep myself at a later stage :P
Let me tell you something very laconically:
"If you are not criticized, you are not doing anything!"
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Tarnicus: You are one of those lovely people who have considerably helped to sway my decision on this matter(I don't like picking an individual, as there are many) but we've can always be in touch by other means :)

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Whenever you're ready - say the word, you know where I stand. ;-)


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Tarnicus: [...]

What I find ironic and indicative of some of the issues on this site, is that the post I linked above was low rated in a matter of seconds(swiftly followed by uprepping to balance it out) and my reply of thanks for the acknowledgement of being noticed and thus downrepped in that reply, has also been lowly rated.

I wonder if people think that affects me? I mean sure I notice but I take it as a compliment unless I'm coming across as an arse, and therefore would down-rep myself at a later stage :P
I guess some would rather see you go - their loss.. ;-P
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Tarnicus: I am reconsidering my decision purely due to the overhwelming replies I have had via PM and in this thread.
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Thespian*: Really glad to know that, I learned about this thread of yours only yesterday and sadly had no time to add a comment before going offline, but believe me, you staying would be the best gift of all, Tarnicus. :)

EDIT: And, if that's OK, I'd like to add an extra vote on behalf of <span class="bold">K_1269</span>, he's one of our most generous givers and doesn't usually enter in any GA for himself, he certainly deserves to win Age of Wonders. :)
Your word is gospel to me when recommending a home for gifts, especially when combined with Celton88's post :) Code sent to K_1269
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Grargar: Let me tell you something very laconically:
"If you are not criticized, you are not doing anything!"
I haven't heard that one before but I love it :)

Edit: had to change a drunken typo from last night which was writing <span class="bold">git</span> instead of gifts.
Post edited May 23, 2014 by Tarnicus
Okay now I'm pissed.

BTW I'm referring to the ass clowns who keep hitting the OP.
Post edited May 22, 2014 by tinyE
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Tarnicus:
I'm glad you're staying (or considering it,) but what the HELL is with the downreppers?? >_< Sons 'a bitches! They'll come and silently down-rep, but won't say anything to your face? What is with that? Harumph! I say harumph! *stands with hands on hips and scowl on face*

My PM'd offer still stands, Tarnicus :)
wait,Tarnicus is staying?
that's awesome! now I'm gonna hug you *hugs*
Thank you very much for Age of Wonders Tarnicus! Also thank you Celton88 and Thespian* for your support! Really excited to play it, been in a strategy mood all week :D

Also, as I already told you in my PM, it's great to hear that you are reconsidering your decision to leave Tarnicus! I personally would be very happy if you end up staying :)
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Thespian*: Really glad to know that, I learned about this thread of yours only yesterday and sadly had no time to add a comment before going offline, but believe me, you staying would be the best gift of all, Tarnicus. :)

EDIT: And, if that's OK, I'd like to add an extra vote on behalf of <span class="bold">K_1269</span>, he's one of our most generous givers and doesn't usually enter in any GA for himself, he certainly deserves to win Age of Wonders. :)
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Tarnicus: Your word is gospel to me when recommending a home for gits, especially when combined with Celton88's post :) Code sent to K_1269
That's awesome, thank you so much, Tarnicus! :)

I hope to hear still more great news in the future, as in "I've decided to stay in the Community!" ;)

*subtly applies a Vulcan mind-suggestion to his words*
Post edited May 22, 2014 by Thespian*
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Tarnicus: Edit 1 - Suggestions for forum changes I am reconsidering my decision purely due to the overhwelming replies I have had via PM and in this thread. I am taking time, where able given my time being a bit more limited, to find a balanced path forward where I don't say "screw you guys, I'm going home" <3
Good. I was just about to tell you you were being an idiot. As to your "grievances", I'll tell you what I tell every silly goose who contemplates leaving: don't mind the dicks! Seriously, just ignore them. Ignore the rep, too. Red, green, mahogany... it's all tosh!

Frankly, I see your problem right there, at the end of your first paragraph:
I've realised that my energy is best directed to other aspects of life.
If you're expending energy, you're doing it wrong! This place is about relaxing and chatting with decent like-minded folk, plus the occasional primate. The only thing around here which even remotely justifies energy expenditure is one of those fancy giveaways,where people are supposed to put some effort in the entering, and you're supposed to put some effort in the judging. Even that is all meant to, ultimately, make everyone happier, so it's really a net energy gain. If you get into an argument, that's energy wasted, even if you see your points being approved and high-rated. Sometimes you need to do it all the same. We all do. But never imagine for a second that your eloquence will change the world. This is the internet, and it hasn't changed for all the decades I've been on it. Now forget this thread, forget the forum, the PMs, everything, and go play a game. Both Grimrock and Aarklash sound too cerebral, so just play some Serious Sam. Invite Munki, too - it makes for great co-op >:-)
So glad to hear that you are reconsidering your involvement in this community, Tarnicus!

I think that the grievances and ideas that you shared in your linked post are justified and very reasonable to accommodate. I hope that the GOG moderators take your words to heart. Even in the event that they don't, I hope that you understand that many people share your views and are willing to band together to support and/or enforce them.

When the internet isn't busy churning out cat videos, they sometimes produce something insightful.
Some of them are simple, but no less true.
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Tarnicus:
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Spinorial: Good. I was just about to tell you you were being an idiot.

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Spinorial:
What gives?! That's what you told me when I said I was staying!
Post edited May 22, 2014 by tinyE
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Spinorial: Good. I was just about to tell you you were being an idiot.
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tinyE: What gives?! That's what you told me when I said I was staying!
Well... it worked, didn't it?
Post edited May 22, 2014 by Grargar