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I'm curious to know what any parents on this forum think of this situation. My sister in law and her husband came up for the fortnight just two days ago. So the wife thought it'd be good idea to take the kids to the zoo. So on the 2 hours down to glasgow my sister in law sat with her youngest sons fingers in her mouth, sucking on them just to keep him quiet.

Does this seem extremely weird and creepy to any else?! We're feeling a bit weirded out and curious to know if it's normal?! haha!
How old is her youngest son? If it's infant or young toddler, not too odd.
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HomerSimpson: How old is her youngest son? If it's infant or young toddler, not too odd.
You're kidding right? I have not seen something so disgusting in a long time.
Post edited June 02, 2013 by darthspudius
Wish someone would suck my finger...
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darthspudius: You're kidding right? I have not seen something so disgusting in a long time.
No, I'm not kidding. Very young children respond to a variety of sensory stimuli for soothing. It can be visual, audible, or apparently in this case, tactile. What do you find to be disgusting about it?
When my nephew gets out of hand I give him a plastic bag to play with. It's fun and it's educational: teaches him about the respiratory system.
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darthspudius: my sister in law sat with her youngest sons fingers in her mouth, sucking on them just to keep him quiet.
Hmmm...I do not think I have heard anything like this before...not the parent sucking on the kids fingers. We do not even let our kids suck on their own fingers=) We do let them use a binky for the first year but that is it. Too me it seems wierd as how would one even start doing that as a way to calm one...
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darthspudius: You're kidding right? I have not seen something so disgusting in a long time.
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HomerSimpson: No, I'm not kidding. Very young children respond to a variety of sensory stimuli for soothing. It can be visual, audible, or apparently in this case, tactile. What do you find to be disgusting about it?
I have two kids 5 and 8... I have seen where their hands go. I don't even want to touch them at that point never mind put their fingers in my mouth. If the child needs to calm, you buy the little bugger a cuddly little teddy. You don't stick their poo, snot ridden fingers in your mouth!
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SpaceManThe: Wish someone would suck my finger...
You meant to say penis.
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darthspudius: my sister in law sat with her youngest sons fingers in her mouth, sucking on them just to keep him quiet.
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misfire200: Hmmm...I do not think I have heard anything like this before...not the parent sucking on the kids fingers. We do not even let our kids suck on their own fingers=) We do let them use a binky for the first year but that is it. Too me it seems wierd as how would one even start doing that as a way to calm one...
yes I am the same. As soon as I saw my kids sucking their fingers they got disciplined.
Was she calming her own stress , using her son's fingers as a pacifier ?
Not a parent, just so you know.



I think it's disgusting, but probably not a bio-hazard or anything.
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Phc7006: Was she calming her own stress , using her son's fingers as a pacifier ?
Oh that just makes it creepier. I honestly could believe she would do that.
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Phc7006: Was she calming her own stress , using her son's fingers as a pacifier ?
Surely if that was the case her husband could have offered to be the human pacifier.

Look at F4llouts reply if you need context
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Licurg: Not a parent, just so you know.

I think it's disgusting, but probably not a bio-hazard or anything.
Good point.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4T8ipIc2PGc