GFTOW?

Right? And then what happened?
Those letters mean nothing to me. =)

This is for the best, my friend. My solution to the OP's question is a vulgar one, based in hormones and viscera. It should not be for everyone.

I almost cracked the code and confirmed that with always trustworthy google.
It's not a bad advice. =)

If 'GFTOW' is innapropriate for individual sensibility and moral code of conduct, try 1 bottle amber to brown liquor.

Because OP is in the US, I would recommend something from Kentucky, and with the words "bourbon whiskey" on the label.

Again, this is not a one-size-fits-all solution.

For visual aid, see:
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/9/9b/DecaturBourbons.jpg

Usually drinking has solved most of my woes. And money problems too, as in what could I buy next. Usually nothing. So no problem.

...lovely.

I juss went through this situation like *right now.* For real, though I was juss wondering where I stand w/her regarding friendship, the same principles apply. She blew me off, and it actually feels great, b/c I now know she ain't worth a dime (and I'm more comfortable in situations akin to confrontation than I am to nicer emotions).

So what you gotta consider is first, why are you obsessing over her? Unless you have a substantial history with her, I can't see a positive reason why you should continue obsessing over her. And supposing you *do* have a substantial history with her, then you have to ask yourself why are you seeking to get close to someone who is pushing you away? I personally have way too much respect for myself to ever waste my time thinkin on some girl who ain't thinkin of me. You should do the same. Anything else, and you'll always lose.

I choose to win, and conquer. Even if that means being by myself at all times, closing doors that would've otherwise been open. In the meanwhile, I can busy myself playing PC games, watching sports, reading, hanging w/my parents, exercising, arguing on mssg boards, doin what I gotta do, & enjoying the weather. I'm simply telling you this so that you don't waste time thinkin on some girl. Most girls, like most fellas, are stupid as fuck anyways. The quicker you understand this, the better off you'll be; it'll lessen the chances of you being manipulated against your will.

This isn't apathy, nor do I endorse apathy. You should simply seek to draw a line in the sand.

There is nothing you can do. Time is the only remedy.

Try not to gain apathy, because it will influence your future relationships and it will be unfair for any future girlfriends - somehow, I know.

Accept what happened, analyse all of the situation, and move on. Half of the world has had the same problem at least once in their lifetimes.

Im seriously considering staying single. Ive never had a good/serious relationship anyway. Plus, no commitments.

You're asking for relationship advice on a gaming forum? Mate, that's like asking a Klansman how to make your black friend like you more/

Only is my own meaning revolves mostly around pleasure.

If it doesn't then it strays from hedonism.

So far, I find a lot of thinkers paint 3 inescapable pictures for existence that are kinda bleak:

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1) Pre-determinism

Life has an agenda that we must find out and strictly adhere to.

It seems like a rather inflexible vision to me.

I see constant change and adaptation as a desirable trait of the universe which we should try to mimic in ourselves.

2) Nihilism

Life has no meaning, therefore I shouldn't feel anything and welcome the void because my existence is meaningless.

Any meaning I define for life cannot possibly be significant...

3) Hedonism

Life is an endless pursuit of pleasure without care for self achievement or join achievement.

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Frankly, all of those 3 models seem like a crutch for the weak in their own respective way.

I'd like to think that at least some of humanity are made of stronger stuff than that.

Any meaning for existence that you define for yourself is intrinsically what you want, and designing your life to get what you want is hedonism. Even if you work in some bit about doing work to better yourself or accepting hardship or whatever to get around the "pleasure" aspect, you're still sculpting your entire outlook on existence based on what you want, and getting what you want is always pleasure (and not in a Twilight Zone-y way where what you want wasn't really want you wanted and now you're unhappy. I mean actually getting what you want). Even pain can be pleasure if it's desired.