Wow.. There's some very broad brushwork going on here.
: So what? You made a broad blanket statement obviously not knowing that there's a difference between devil worship and the Church of Satan (it is an unfortunate choice of names, but given LaVey's intent on rubbing it in, I guess it's to be expected). What's so nuts about living your life the way you want to, especially when LaVey makes a big deal about accountability. You make your choices, if they blow up in your face, you deal with them and suffer the consequence - because in the end it was you who made the choice, it wasn't preordained by some higher power. And no, it isn't a crime to not care for "devil worshippers", but it's small minded to round Atheistic and Theistic principles into the one thing.
: The philosophy doesn't go as far as stating that "the world sucks". Yes, it is about egoism, and doing what feels right to you. But the overall point is to live your life as you see fit, take into consideration those you will, and try not to be hampered down by anyone telling you how to live your own life. Expecting people to live by inflexible boundaries just isn't logical, what works for one person doesn't always work for the next.
The concept of religion, no matter what it is, defies sensibility. Even Atheisism. There is still a belief that what we see is what is real, there is no god, but can we prove it? No, Atheists can't prove that there isn't a higher power, just as much as whatever religion can't prove that there is.
The Satanists you've met, have you considered that they might be wackjobs no matter what religion or philosophy they follow? And if they read Crowley, well.. Satanism and Thelema don't really go hand in hand, there is a certain belief of deities in Thelema, so all in all it's somewhat odd that an Atheist would put so much stock in Crowley's writings.
But hey, when you take the Atheistic approach, people killing for "god and country", blowing themselves up with the belief that they will attain eternal bliss for smiting the enemy, denying what it is to be human to reach the pearly gates and so on. I kind of consider that nuts. Fundamentally, humans are wackjobs, no matter what. =P
Animals with abstract thoughts, fighting an inner struggle between animalistic instinct and a self-appointed sense of divinity.