cah: I call nonsense. Chess is focused on winning. In minecraft there's no winning goal.
Board games evolved a "little" since chess, you know? I play board games every week, and not a single game we play is focused on winning. It could be, of course, but people playing board games rarely are that competitive. They don't have anything to "prove", they just want to have fun. It's not seen that often in video games.
The one card game that is really close to video games is Magic: The Gathering. And I observe the same kind of horrible behavior between players who play competively, especially on tournaments. There are gentlemen, of course, but people get really really nervous and paranoid when it's focused on winnig.
Have you tried counter-strike or starcraft?
Counter strike a.k.a. everybody crawl almost in space waiting as somebody impatient sticks his nose out and then it's 3 minutes of shooting and next round? Been there, done that.
And starcraft? It's exactly that kind of game I hate. You either have insane ass micro and start attacking from the first 30 seconds after game starts, or you loose.
I don't feel like missing out anything while NOT playing those games. Maybe dozens of hours of frustration and boredom. Entry level in SC and CS is way, waaay too steep for anyone new.
Mnemon: Ooh, yes. It's such a pity that boardgames really don't have much of a following here in the UK. Among the things I miss ever since moving abroad.
They don't? You should try visiting your local board games shops and clubs, there will be plenty of people who want to play and have fun. Even in Poland, where board games sold in 3k copies are called a success, I haven't had any problems finding people who play them regurarily.
I thought "in here, people think board games are for children" too, until I discovered
I couldn't be more wrong