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GameRager: I think that Landerill means dumb as in not her being dumb but the choice out of all the other options she could've picked from. Killing one's self is never the smart choice.
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Landeril: Thanks GR. Once more you know what I speak of. It was dumb by comparison.
so wait... whos dumb?
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Landeril: Thanks GR. Once more you know what I speak of. It was dumb by comparison.
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godspeeed: so wait... whos dumb?
No one.......what he meant originally about suicide being a dumb choice is that the choice was a dumb/poor one to make. He didn't mean she was intellectually dumb perse.
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GameRager: There's already one everywhere else. Fact is privacy is an illusion. :\
If the thinks I've said in school, in the classroom were ever public, I could never work as a government official. Schools (and colleges, etc.) are places of the free mind and for shaping of once personality. A good teacher can keep a class under control. Surveillance in such a manner is not good for the development of our children.

And privacy is very doable, if you know how to handle it.
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GameRager: There's already one everywhere else. Fact is privacy is an illusion. :\
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SimonG: If the thinks I've said in school, in the classroom were ever public, I could never work as a government official. Schools (and colleges, etc.) are places of the free mind and for shaping of once personality. A good teacher can keep a class under control. Surveillance in such a manner is not good for the development of our children.

And privacy is very doable, if you know how to handle it.
I didn't mean gov't surveillance of the schools, but for the school to monitor itself. Big difference there. Also most schools use video only monitoring i.e. no audio so no recording of what one said. Plus the tapes aren't kept forever or even until you start working a job.

And privacy is mostly gone btw......gov't knows a shite ton of everything you do. Medical records, billing info for stuff bought, etc.
Post edited November 30, 2011 by GameRager
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GameRager: I didn't mean gov't surveillance of the schools, but for the school to monitor itself. Big difference there. Also most schools use video only monitoring i.e. no audio so no recording of what one said. Plus the tapes aren't kept forever or even until you start working a job.
That is better (or rather less bad). Maybe in extrem cases like this. But generally I remain critical...
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GameRager: I didn't mean gov't surveillance of the schools, but for the school to monitor itself. Big difference there. Also most schools use video only monitoring i.e. no audio so no recording of what one said. Plus the tapes aren't kept forever or even until you start working a job.
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SimonG: That is better (or rather less bad). Maybe in extrem cases like this. But generally I remain critical...
I only said it was an option, not the only one. ;)

But I for one wish they'd had it or better staff monitoring of the kids back in my day. Most of the time there was no way to show you were telling the truth on your claims as there were no witnesses in many cases(or they allied with the bullies for some reason), and in he said/they said cases the staff usually dropped the matter and didn't pursue it if at all.
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SimonG: A good teacher can keep a class under control.
Have you ever worked with big groups of children for prolonged periods of time? Because it doesn't sound that way.
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GameRager: And privacy is mostly gone btw......gov't knows a shite ton of everything you do. Medical records, billing info for stuff bought, etc.
Believe me, they don't. I know what I'm talking about. I think it's different in the US, but just one example, over here, you generally pay in cash here.

We recently discovered a right wing terrorist cell in Germany that lasted for several years and killed 8 people. And those were already suspicious...

If a bunch of nazis dipshits can evade the net, it can't be that strong.
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SimonG: A good teacher can keep a class under control.
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Fenixp: Have you ever worked with big groups of children for prolonged periods of time? Because it doesn't sound that way.
No, but I know a lot teachers. Also from "bad schools". It is tough, but not impossible.
Post edited November 30, 2011 by SimonG
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SimonG: No, but I know a lot teachers. Also from "bad schools". It is tough, but not impossible.
Oooh you just won't prevent things like bullying unless you're watching them the whole time.

Actually, it is probably possible, but it would require clever distribution of children with certain personality traits to classes, and that's ... Well ... Not technically doable. Monitoring is far easier :D
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Fenixp: Oooh you just won't prevent things like bullying unless you're watching them the whole time.

Actually, it is probably possible, but it would require clever distribution of children with certain personality traits to classes, and that's ... Well ... Not technically doable. Monitoring is far easier :D
You can never prevent bullying, like you can't prevent any crime 100% sure. But with good teachers and administrative action you can prevent the worst. And goind the easiest choice rarely the best ;-P
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GameRager: The laws people are proposing and trying to pass in several states would make bullying online a crime possibly with a jail sentence. I really don't think this is the right way to go about things.
The reason for such proposals is coming from online anonymity, not because of the bullying.

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SimonG: I fully agree. Bullying is a social problem and should only be enforced by laws if society has failed.
I wonder, when's the point reached that society had failed....

My proposal? Making movies like Ben X (Trailer) mandatory on every school.
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GameRager: The laws people are proposing and trying to pass in several states would make bullying online a crime possibly with a jail sentence. I really don't think this is the right way to go about things.
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Siannah: The reason for such proposals is coming from online anonymity, not because of the bullying.
Still it's not a good thing regardless.
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Siannah: The reason for such proposals is coming from online anonymity, not because of the bullying.
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GameRager: Still it's not a good thing regardless.
Possible. Doing nothing at all and just looking away is even worse.
There's no curing ills like this, as sad as it is some will always fall through cracks. We have to do our best to help the people who need it while striking a balance with not oppressing everyone in the process.

Do I know the exact solution? Not really. I've seen schools do too little and too much. I've seen millions of dollars apparently pissed away on current anti-bullying training and programs for educational staff because apparently they still fucking suck at it. I don't blame them for getting it wrong sometimes but it seems their process is actually built around whatever cargo cult voodoo is currently in vogue rather than actual testable and repeatable scientific study results.
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GameRager: Still it's not a good thing regardless.
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Siannah: Possible. Doing nothing at all and just looking away is even worse.
I agree but again this isn't the answer, and if you're inferring that doing anything is better than doing nothing that isn't always true.