I don't know why but having a lot of trouble replying here... ok messed up html... got it...
It's not cum as slang... I think it's cum as in
magna cum laude... ergo from latin and similar to saying: con algo, with something.
Brasas: I'm smirking... I'm grinning... :)
TStael: Plus one Brasas. But you zero in wrongly, unless you hate some.
You're cool in my book ;) I actually have family you kind of remind me of.
Believe it or not I find your communication idiosyncracies charming and frustrating in equal measure. Someday I might even understand if it's natural or conscious - I'm sooooo curious if you speak like you write... :)
And of course I'm grinning again now.
Because I think I'm zeroing in soooo rightly - you most certainly have unusual modes of expressing yourself BUT I sure as heck don't hate you, or them - so your implication on my motives is just mistaken, which is both tragic and comic...
At a meta level (cultural diversity) this is so apropos. Please don't be suspicious that others are curious about you. I don't think anyone around here actually, you know, hates you.
Some people clearly distrust you (not me), some people seem to slightly dislike you (again not me), and I expect quite a number of people are befuddled/dazzled by you (me also, on occasion) - but these latest usually don't tell you that, because why would they? They don't get into difficult conversations with you and normally people don't tell others that they find them "weird", as our colleague just did.
Respect