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timppu: Apart from that, I was proposing you do something to make the life of the Romanian gypsies better off, since you are already there. Give them food, a job, or something.
This was a great joke. I almost laughed my ass off.
a) They don't want to work. They really don't.
b) They don't want food. They want money. More money. Some of them are the richest people in the country, but still they want more. The others are poor, but they wouldn't want to lift a finger to work. They rather cut down the woods, beg, steal and sell their children.
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SonnyD: If you do something good only because you expect something in return for it it's not good at all.
I don't know, it seems like people that work for a wage don't agree with you (excluding volunteer work ofc). I mean they provide a service that do something good in the end for other human beings but they always expect something in return otherwise why would they do it?
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SonnyD: So you don't care about anybody and you don't like to help other people but you expect completly strangers on the internet to help and advice you on your life crisis?
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Maxvorstadt: Sounds like Sociopathy to me! Or is ot Psychopathy?
Nah it's rather difficult to make such an diagnosis though the web I guess, not everyone who is selfish is a sociopath or a psychopath but it sounds a little bit like on.

So, OP, if you want help, then help yourself by trying to change your way of thinking. First step: Find something to care about. A Hamster, a cat a dog or something you can learn building an emotional relationship to. Or try making new friends or get closer with older friends. Show serious interest and concern for their thoughts and open up to the idea that there everyone is an individual as much as you are.

If you truely have the desire to change this will work. If you only want to avoid being punished in a cosmic sense of way you've already failed.
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SonnyD: If you do something good only because you expect something in return for it it's not good at all.
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Nirth: I don't know, it seems like people that work for a wage don't agree with you (excluding volunteer work ofc). I mean they provide a service that do something good in the end for other human beings but they always expect something in return otherwise why would they do it?
I for one totally agree with SonnyD.

Your case is quite good though. Theoretically we can try to separate volunteers into 2 groups. First one works for salary (expectations), while the second one work for ideology reasons and for money. Probably that second group of people will be more *prepared* when meeting their final death in that existence. But I don't know what I'm talking about really ;)
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ciomalau: honestly i don't care about nobody in the world except me. however i noticed that if i do "BAD" things, bad things happen to me too! this worries me of course, so i want to see what happens if i do good sh!t... :-/ also like a week ago i did some tarot readings - the simplest kind of tarot where you have to pick only 1 or 2 cards.. and twice in a row i got the same mother facking cards! the devil and the wheel... the meaning is that in the future i'll have to make a choice - the ethical choice will seem the bad one and the right choice will seem wrong... and somehow i got to pick what's best for me... :( and on top of all this bullsh!t i got that weird feeling again! i feel like... silence.. like a calm before the storm.. i think something is going to happen to me and it's going to be soon! reminds me of Final destination - life is a b!tch and then you die... whatever.. so i was wondering if i can help people somehow. like volunteering to do "work" or things. but i don't want to donate my organs or waste too much money or even move out of my home. it has to be on the internet if possible.. and legal :-/ i take no pleasure in helping people but maybe that's the right way
I honestly suggest you find someone to talk to - you need to take care of yourself before you help others. Clearly you do have some sense of care and empathy because you want to help others. Without trying to make too many assumptions, you sound stressed to the point of depression. Take the time to step back and find someone to talk to. It helped me a lot after a bad experience.

As the things like the tarot - they are meaningless and pretty much known to be game at best. If you are struggling to cope with what is happening it's probably best to avoid something that might cause unnecessary anxiety.

I've 'liked' your post to help your rep - I don't think you're a bad person. Just look after yourself and you'll be fine.
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SonnyD: First step: Find something to care about. A Hamster... or something you can learn building an emotional relationship to.
Hmm... building emotional relationship with a hamster. You've got me really thinking here ;))
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SonnyD: If you do something good only because you expect something in return for it it's not good at all.
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Nirth: I don't know, it seems like people that work for a wage don't agree with you (excluding volunteer work ofc). I mean they provide a service that do something good in the end for other human beings but they always expect something in return otherwise why would they do it?
I think there is a difference between providing certain helpful services for making a living and between random acts of kindness you can do every day. So e.g. if I help an old lady crossing a street I do it to help her because I know she might be afraid to go alone and I don't expect anything in return for it (except a 'Thank you' maybe^^)

I was talking about those little acts of kindness and selfnessless, not about working for free 24/7^^
Don't worry, when you get past 16, it starts to fade out.
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javihyuga: Don't worry, when you get past 16, it starts to fade out.
You *killed* me! LMAO! ;))))

Seriously if someone talks to much about how much he/she doesn't care that could mean something the other way around.
Also if someone accuse other people for having some negative aspects (e.g. greed) that also could mean that these very features are present in the accuser. People talk too much about themselves they are like open books for curious eye.
Post edited September 25, 2015 by Cadaver747
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SonnyD: First step: Find something to care about. A Hamster... or something you can learn building an emotional relationship to.
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Cadaver747: Hmm... building emotional relationship with a hamster. You've got me really thinking here ;))
Nah, I think a mice might work too.

But never, I reapeat NEVER build an emotional relationship to a guinea pig. Those heartless bastards will toy with your love and leave you more broken than before!
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Cadaver747: Hmm... building emotional relationship with a hamster. You've got me really thinking here ;))
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SonnyD: Nah, I think a mice might work too.

But never, I reapeat NEVER build an emotional relationship to a guinea pig. Those heartless bastards will toy with your love and leave you more broken than before!
You tell me. I left my ex empty hearted guinea pig for a lovely chinchilla ;))
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SonnyD: Nah, I think a mice might work too.

But never, I reapeat NEVER build an emotional relationship to a guinea pig. Those heartless bastards will toy with your love and leave you more broken than before!
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Cadaver747: You tell me. I left my ex empty hearted guinea pig for a lovely chinchilla ;))
Ah good choice mate!

I for myself now happily life with an opossum. A bit rude when you first meet it but loyal to the bone!^^
Well, this is a really interesting conversation about videogame mechanics. Personally I don't really like save scumming and the boss fights are a little hard. But overall I'd give it minus 10.
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bad_fur_day1: Well, this is a really interesting conversation about videogame mechanics. Personally I don't really like save scumming and the boss fights are a little hard. But overall I'd give it minus 10.
Congratulations on winning the Segue of the month award.
Sounds kind of like https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

or just trollin' trollin' trollin'...