morolf: iirc you could reject her advances. And besides, she usually ended up dead in my playthroughs shortly afterwards anyway :-)
You can't reject Phaere unless you mean an open attack on whole city, you can only lie about your *status* to avoid the forceful sex, it's not a rejection in my opinion, it's a deception at most.
In BG3 you can actually reject Minthara at the end and she will take it surprisingly well (she should have attack you on sight). In BG3 you can always say "no" to anyone at the very end, no one is going to rape you, I guess we'll never see such CRPG games in our life.
morolf: Granted, BG2 did have some surprisingly dark sex stuff too. There were those forced prostitutes in the Copper Coronet whose "services" you could use and say "I don't care" when they told you their story.
Never used their services, Jaheira was quite jealous and she denied them for me, so I decided to never try. Call me old fashioned, in Dragon Age I was more "open minded" ;)
morolf: Anyway, Wyll, Astarion and Gale all sound like major creeps, I think you should kill them, even if it means your party will lose half its members.
I hated Astarion and the beginning, but I will definitely play with him in my party for an evil playthrough, his comments and reactions are the best ones.
Wyll is a bit irritating, I'm playing a good character, but he is way too good for me (like a devoted follower of Torm), I took him on 2 missions and he killed half the enemies, his spells list is quite limited but his spell power is tremendous, and he can regain those after the Short Rest, plus his cantrip damage spell is good and I buffed it with feats, special armor and gloves.
Gale is the best wizard you can get and he has CON 16 which is way higher than my main Rogue has, and you should never kill him due to *spoilers*.
I would never kill anyone of them for wanting me once or twice, but I would kick them in the head in real life. I wish there was an option to say "I love charname, leave me alone!"
Yes, it was quite tiresome to deny approaches from least expected directions, especially when even the dead can see that I take fond on particular "bosom-companion". Maybe, just maybe it was patched out, given that devs stated that your companions should not be that "horny".