TARFU: I actually prefer forums where the mods take a light hand. Reminds me of the old heydays of the internet, chat rooms, etc.
Just let any opinions you disagree with roll off of you like water off a duck's back.
Breja: Ok, a few things.
I do not like heavy moderation. I agree about that. But we have NONE. I believe that puts a certain responsibility on us, especially given how many people actually want to keep it that way (no moderation that is). If that's how people want to keep it, than they should themselves keep some standards.
Second- the great thing about this forum used to be you didn't need to have a "titanium skin". Why are we suddenly so accepting of this being the new norm for us here?
Like I said, I'm not bothered by insults directed at me, it's not about my feelings getting hurt. I've been called many "nice" things by some of my esteemed colleagues on this forum. I'm not calling for them to be ostracized, and I am not a member of any minority. It's not a personal matter. And it's not about "opinions I disagree with". I'm not saying people who say we should ban creationists and people who belive that the Earth is flat. It's about nazi-level rhetorics about subhumans or gas chambers (the latter wasn't Bradley, but we're arguing the princple I think, not just his case). It's about trying to keep this a friendly place for people who do not have a skin made of titanium, who are not hardened by facing the worst of the internet since ninteen ninty fuck.
I've been here for a couple of years. I have benefited from this community's generosity, sense of humor, game recommendations. I am not the most active or "community-minded" person here. But still, I do feel a certain obligation to try and keep this place as friendly for others as it was when I found it. And a certain obligation to just, as a decent human being, not to let such level of hatred and base, mundane evil slide. That's why I think we need some moderation here, for extreme cases, and failing that, we need to show such people the door ourselves, as well as we can.
timppu: I have to agree with this. Maybe I haven't followed closely all of his writings, but at worst I've found them silly more than something to get worked up over. Like that story about his kickboxing dwarf ex-girlfriend who threatened to kick his ass, I got a chuckle over it.
Breja: Have a butcher's then (at the attachment). I'm sure other's can point you to some other gems.
Ok, a few replies.
1. You are quite funny, my Polish friend. I got a laugh out of your "nineteen ninety fuck" and references to my remark about "titanium skin". The most laughing I've done in quite a while on this forum, in fact. Well done.
2. Just remember that "nazi rhetoric" and blah blah bullshit about gas chambers can only hurt you if you give it that power. The nazis, Italians, and Japanese lost in their bid for world conquest. Anyone still advocating their ideologies is just in denial and is worthy of being ignored in relation to anything having to do with those ideologies.
3. This is a games forum with little to no moderation. Most of us know this and police ourselves accordingly. If someone spouts controversial political blather, feel free to ignore them and their posts on that matter. However, if the same people are friendly and polite and want to talk about games/gaming, it's your choice to ignore them or not. I just happen to choose to take the friendly route.
4. I doubt anyone gets banned by IP address here, just account. So if one person (a persistent troll) gets banned, it is just like cutting off one head of the hydra, they will be back with a new sock puppet account soon, you can be sure. Why not kill them with kindness, ignore the blather, talk about games and forget about the rest. Besides, I know I have better things to do than use my valuable time trying to be the policeman of the internet.
5. A couple of quotes: " An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind." and:
" The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."
They're attributed to the same guy. Think about it a bit.