Zaxares: You needn't worry about political correctness or agenda being forced on you in the EE games.
Hickory: What a load of bollocks. Yeah, no political correctness there...
As I said, I was not aware that this exchange existed because I was playing on a male character. I played through the entirety of Siege of Dragonspear and completed every single sidequest and this is perhaps the one exchange that I'm now aware of that could be construed as being "politically correct". Even if it was, I'd argue that the reactions are mostly realistic. You're the Hero of Baldur's Gate, cheered by commoners, feted by nobles, a powerful adventurer that's achieved FAR more than the average Faerunian will ever be able to dream of. As I used in my example above, I wouldn't be pleased if some rando walked up to me and said "Hey, pretty boy!" or words to similar effect.
Bookwyrm627: Notice that every single option presented there is some form of "I'm seriously offended and have no wit."
There is nothing to equivalent of laughing it off. There is nothing to counter-insult the speaker. Not even a simple "What's your pleasure, harlot?"
If some rando walked up to me like that, I'm not going to be aggressively offended, I'm going to be a little surprised and likely respond in kind.
This is a fair complaint. There is the "Are you talking to me?" option, which could be interpreted a number of ways, but I concur that there's no option to flirt back or mock Voghiln in turn. (Which strikes me as being a bit odd, considering he's a romance option.) Most other dialogues will have a Good/Neutral/Evil response; #1 looks like the Neutral option (or maybe it opens up more paths where Voghiln apologizes), #2 looks like the Good option (willing to forgive the mistakes of others), and #4 and 5 seem like the hostile/Evil options.
Perhaps I need to dig into the dialogue files and see just how and when this exchange shows up. I wonder if this exchange shows up all the time for female characters, or whether he only says it if you insulted or blew him off on their first meeting (this is not where you meet Voghiln for the first time. It's where he will show up at the camp if you do not accept his offer to join the party after the first meeting.)