George, sorry if we were a bit quick to judge. When someone ignores repeated prompts, it's easy to grab a conclusion. Mea Culpa.
When you start a forum post as a Question, it will remain as a question until you go back to that topic and mark one of the posts as "Solved". Only the topic-starter can do that, so your old posts will remain "UNANSWERED" until you go back and mark them solved, as many of them have been. That's all we're asking you to do. Call it Forum Etiquette.
As for your age and issues - you're certainly not the only one in that chronological bracket, so don't feel alone, LOL.
The game shouldn't just "freeze" or "do weird things", so I would surmise that you have hardware or software issue with either your PC in general, or the installation of the game. The game will automatically "auto-detect" the video settings when you first run it, but unfortunately it does a poor job at that, so most "tweak" those setting to get it running smoothly. If you would post back with your Hardware specs - CPU, video card, Memory, Operating System - it would be easier to give you some more specific things to try.