I wouldn't mind it if it popped up in some rpg set in the US in 2016. But when it is set in the Forgotten Realms...our issues don't really apply do they? The FR setting has no issues against gay people, or no racism based on skincolor.
Most gamer, or readers for that matter, play games\read books to get a break from real-world politics and all the crap that is going on. Getting hammered with "You must support trans people!" in the middle of a game, just breaks the whole immersion. I don't mind gay characters in games either. But like every other character they need to be written well, and not just be some token glued into the game to qualify the writer as being "progressive". A good example of a great character is Dorian from DA:I. Best character in the game for sure. And he happens to be game at the same time.
This here, though....
https://us.v-cdn.net/5019558/uploads/editor/sp/dnce7jw3633a.jpg Firstly "wench" isn't an offensive word at all in the Forgotten Realms. Secondly you get 5 replies to it. All of them = get offended. The writer just takes control of your character and gives you no options - to teach you that "wench" is a bad word in 2016. It removed the option for roleplaying, didn't it? A decent writer would have added different options to that one. One where you could turn the comment back on him, for example.
Personally I think trans people should have the same rights as everyone else. I have no issues at all with them.
This post sums up how damaging it can be when Activist-writers just stuff a group of people into the spotlight just to score social-points.
https://us.v-cdn.net/5019558/uploads/editor/qz/42isa4r87ng5.jpg This bit of pure gold from Jaheira herself, kind of sums up a lot too. Especially since the SoD writer said Jaheira was "nothing but a nagging wife and doesn't represent women well"
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