Can anyone advise me on how to create a server so I can play with a friend? She creates the server and I can't find it on the list. We're both using the Client Extension and even following the directions there (typing in NWLauncher.exe +connect servername +password <password>) doesn't work to connect me to her server. I've tried typing it in a bunch of different ways, even without the .exe part, but all I get back is that the console doesn't recognize the command.

Anyone that has played this with a friend or has some insight into this, can I get some assistance please? Thanks.

Your friend may need to configure port forwarding on her router. She should forward all external traffic coming in on UDP port 5121 to the internal IP address of the PC she's running the server on.

Every router does port forwarding configuration a little differently, so if she doesn't know how to do this she should do a search on her router name and model number followed by "port forwarding".

Also, she needs to be running the main NWN program with admin rights. Right-click the program and select "Run as Administrator". (Or right-click the program and click "Properties > Compatibility > Run as administrator" to make the program always run as admin).