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PaterAlf: I have way too many games, but I don't think buying them is an addiction. In fact I plan to play more or less every game I've ever bought. Maybe my lifetime won't be long enough for that, but in that case I regard buying the games as support for the developer who managed to create something that interests me.
Considering your impressive completion rate over at the Games Finished in 20xx threads, you must own a whole damn lot of games! If I had your cookiemonstrous completion rate, I probably wouldn't see buying that many games as a problem, or at least not to the same degree.


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HereForTheBeer: Since colorful promos are part of the problem, I suggest a full-on embrace of the grey: adjust your monitor / GPU settings for monochrome output. ; )
But...then I won't notice when they reinstate the GOG logo in color! (I'm still foolishly hoping...)


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moonshineshadow: ...
I kind of like looking at my huge collection but I also always feel guilty because there are so many I have not played.
I quite enjoy looking at my shelf with all the nice little pictures too, it's rather soothing. While I don't feel too guilty about the purchases I've already made and not yet played (aside from a few exceptions), I often shake my head and think to myself, "this is madness!" Also, I can't afford it so there's that, even just the financial reasons alone are a decisive factor.
My completion rate is less than half of yours and I've been buying games at a much quicker rate (0,55 games per day on GOG alone) )so I am looking towards an equation that will never be solved unless I curb my buying for a time. Maybe I could allow myself to buy one game for every 10 games completed? That would be less fanatical than to stop buying completely but for the moment, I've decided to apply drastic measures to myself in that regard. Mainly because of finances, if I had plenty of money I would see it as supporting GOG and keep doing it regardless of how immense the collection grows. One of our members (Barry I think) owns the entire catalog and that's perfectly fine as I'm sure he can afford it.


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gunsynd: Hell,if you can afford them then buy 'em.If you can't then don't,until you save up for them.
Nothing wrong with too less or too many games,don't worry about trying to keep up with the (Jones).
There are far worse additions than this in the world...:-)
Ah, that's the name I was looking for, thanks for reminding me. BarryJones something, the legend who owns everything!
Yes there are worse addictions than this, like I said this is #firstworldproblems 101. However, it's better not to ignore any addictions, even the seemingly harmless ones, as they might be connected to underlying issues that are more problematic.
As long as I could afford to purchase everything I wanted I didn't see it as a problem but now that I can't afford it, it has become an issue. This self-help thread is not for everyone who own a lot of games, only for those who see their game purchasing as a problem, either because of finances or because it makes them feel unhappy/guilty/overwhelmed. Or both.



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Random_Coffee: The Norwegian currency is weak at the moment, making dollars and euros very expensive for me.
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ne_zavarj: Have you seen the hungarian forint ??? You will cry .
I can't complain as the Swiss Franc here is still ok but we had to devalue our currency quite a bit in order to synchronize it with the ailing Euro. Otherwise other countries can't buy our stuff anymore.
I miss the old times when I could travel to some place and one Swiss Franc would get me 1000 Lira in Italy and so on, it was fun.



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AnimalMother117: You would think the GOG staff would take this thread down or something, since their whole purpose is to sell games...
The fact that they don't close a thread like this is the very reason I have spent most of my money here instead of e.g. on Steam. I only betrayed GOG twice when I bought the Fallout series and Runaway 3 on Steam sales instead of waiting for a sale here. I ended up getting the GOG versions as well so now I have zero games in my non-GOG collections that I don't have on GOG as well, making me quite a loyal fellow.
I'll keep buying games from here but have to take a break. I'm quite certain that GOG staff would approve to me playing more of their games instead of just being a zombie collector. By playing games, I ultimately spread more love for GOG in this world than by hoarding endlessly.
I contemplated deeply before making this thread, debating with myself if making such a thread violates the "don't shit where you eat" principle, a principle I certainly believe in.
However, this is not a call for rebellion, I'm not telling people to not buy games. I want to discuss the topic of game purchasing addiction in a group therapy manner and my current decision to not buy any games does not have to be someone else's decision. It's a drastic measure for myself as I haven't come up with a better solution plus as I said, I simply can't afford it. For anyone who is equally broke, it is definitely a sensible decision to stop buying games for the time being. This is not a protest in any way.
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dr.schliemann: Do you feel dirty all the time? I suspected it! ;-)
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Maighstir: I don't. Not yet anyway. When the other copy is DRM'd, I buy it on GOG for less future hassle, and when the other copy is on disc, I buy it on GOG for simplicity. Also, I am fairly likely to buy a copy on disc of a game I already have as a download (unless the disc/package is useless and simply acts as a code to access the game at a download service).
Only to prevent any misunderstandings, I was only joking with tinyE (tinyE, I love you) and my initial post was clearly ironic as well (even though it contains a bit of truth, likewise the OP). :-)
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CrashNBrn: My goal is to only buy from my wishlist (though I keep adding to wishlists)... The other rule is when I buy games (mostly from the wishlist), to also remove games from my wishlist that are
1) Too much like another game I already own and have not played.
2) Know deep down that I may never actually play said wishlisted-item.

So to buy games from my wishlist, I also need to remove games from my wishlist. Also do not do impulse purchases. Add to your cart, and hum-and-haw for a little while, then remove some (or all of them).
Very good point, the wishlist is indeed a good place to address things! I have in fact removed redundant stuff from my wishlist (only to buy it later on a sale...) but overall, my wishlist has increased despite my aggressive buying rate. I't s because I also spend time on the forums and read interesting posts by fellow members and thus hear about games I didn't know about. Then I think, wow this is a cool game...and on the wishlist it goes.

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CrashNBrn: Also keep in mind the "saving money" fallacy, if you are buying something just because it's on sale, you aren't saving money... you are spending money you wouldn't have just because you *think* you are getting a deal.
How true...I often think ah come on this is just one Dollar here, 2-3 Dollars there. Compared to the insane prices of groceries here in Switzerland, games on sale often cost less than a small bag of peanuts. However, when I notice the total charges for game purchases on my credit card statement, it doesn't look like peanuts anymore. Several Hundreds of Dollars in a year isn't chump change as not everyone in my country is a rich banker.


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tinyE: Actually booze was the hardest, hence my hospital stint back in November. I realize I shouldn't joke about it but that does help deal with it. :D
It would be most tragic if you lost your sense of humor. Now I don't know you in "real life" but here on the forums I've already associated you with humor so what would I do if you lost your humor. I would have to re-associate you, which would be inconvenient. Your situation is indeed no laughing matter at all but I won't disrespect you by shoving pity on you.
If you can joke about your own problems, you become immensely powerful. Not immortal, but it's a special kind of power.

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innerring: In my case the addiction will be over in a month when I'll probably be unemployed haha :(
I've never been to Bulgaria but I'd like to visit. I'll have to stop being poor myself first though :)
Being poor in Switzerland is light years away from being poor in most other places but it nevertheless puts an end to avoidable fun expenses. I wouldn't dream about going out to eat at a restaurant and stuff like that, can't even visit friends in cities more than half an hour away, too expensive. As long as I'm not starving or homeless it's not a deal breaker though, I have seen what true poverty looks like in 3rd world countries so I want no pity or anything.


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dr.schliemann: Sometimes I even buy on GOG a game I already own elsewhere, I feel so dirty!

*Starts crying and flees away*
I feel dirty especially when I buy a game a elsewhere instead of from GOG, as I posted above I only did that twice and promptly got those games from GOG as well to appease my shame :)
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awalterj: This is less than many have but it is too much already. I can't afford to keep doing this but even if I could afford it, I still find it a good idea to stop purchasing games altogether and not buy anything at all
What if you could continue to increase your collection without having to spend another cent? :P
Asked weakly......

Does kickstarter games count?
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Maighstir: I don't. Not yet anyway. When the other copy is DRM'd, I buy it on GOG for less future hassle, and when the other copy is on disc, I buy it on GOG for simplicity. Also, I am fairly likely to buy a copy on disc of a game I already have as a download (unless the disc/package is useless and simply acts as a code to access the game at a download service).
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dr.schliemann: Only to prevent any misunderstandings, I was only joking with tinyE (tinyE, I love you) and my initial post was clearly ironic as well (even though it contains a bit of truth, likewise the OP). :-)
I did not misunderstand you, I simply enjoy taking the joke a couple levels further (frequently using facts or factoids of myself as a stepping stone to do so).
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ddickinson: A nice idea, awalterj, although it's a shame you didn't use the Dante's Inferno 9 circles of hell programme. That could have been very interesting. :-)
Oooh, what a most wonderful picture! Gotta love me some good pixel art and this is a very refreshing entertaining change from the classic badass Gustav Doré illustrations in my 1904 edition of the Divine Comedy.
Just one question: Will I go to the 4th circle of Hell with the "hoarders and spenders" or directly to the 9th circle for treachery??(because of this thread, not because you called me a traitor earlier on for not doing everything you say :D)


Sadly, I only have the German version written with that old lettering that is hard to read. I've tried reading the original Italian version which despite having studied Latin as a major for 7 years and Italian for 3 years as an elective, I had a rather hard time to understand. It's not fun when you have to look up words all the time. Breaks the beautiful poetic flow very much. My Italian sucks big time, probably due to lack of practice. Fortunately, Italians speak with their arms and hands a lot (Stan the Salesman style) and I instantly start doing the same so communications kinda work.

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blotunga: Hi, I am blotunga and I'm an addict. I have 239 games on GOG, 435 on steam and I want to stop buying. Sometimes... and then some sale comes along...
*group chorus*

Welcome, blotunga. Thank you for sharing yourself with us!


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KiNgBrAdLeY7: Hmmm. Severe case of shopaholism. Had this too, once upon a time, especially during the time period i was into the Yugi Oh trading card game. Sit was pretty expensive too, especially if you were into the booster packs. Not a pure video game, but game, still.

You stop it, as ANY other addiction, by providing a big shock to your own shelf. Now, what kind of shock would that be, and of what magnitude and caliber, i honestly cannot say, for different people, different methods and treatments must be employed.
Schopaholism, great term. Now that we have a word for it, we can fight it!
I'm not desperate enough to resort to shock therapy (like WoW players breaking their CDs etc) but I do think that completely stopping to buy games is extreme enough for me. Too much shock therapy isn't beneficial, I learned that while playing The Asylum: Psychiatric Clinic for Abused Cuddly Toys - a game in which you psychoanalyze abused stuffed animal toys and when they're too catatonic one must resort to shock therapy, however too much can screw things up so one has to be sensible. Absolutely great game btw, free and playable online via browser!

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KiNgBrAdLeY7: You get rid of an addiction, by growing yourself SICK OF IT. There is no other way. Much like food... You like strawberries for example? Eat a kilo straight at once until you vomit, and i assure you, you are never going to touch the damn stuff ever again.
Might work in some cases. I got rid of my fanatic appreciation of white chocolate by eating too much of it. Never made me vomit though. I did vomit after eating an entire bag of gum bears when I was 4 years old, I vividly remember throwing up a disgusting red slush, really awful. I still like gum bears though. So growing sick seems to work for some foods but not with others and depends on the person, but it is one possible approach. I guess I grew sick of buying games and stopped because of that but as I said I can't afford to do it financially anyway.


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DieRuhe: Ahh, the good old days of buying and buying and buying. I got over it through the "no choice plan" - eg, no money. Nothing like quitting cold turkey!
High Five! :)

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DieRuhe: Sure, I buy something now and then, but nothing like the old days when I'd waltz into Best Buy and load up an armful of pc and console games all the time. Sigh.
Eh? In the old days, I would never have been able to over-buy games. A new game cost between $70-90, it was a special occasion once in a blue moon. The rest was borrowing/lending and piracy :/


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dr.schliemann: I read the Divine Comedy several times and I must say it's a shame people who can't read italian are unable to get how wonderful it is. Sorry for the off-topic.
Ah, so fortunate for you! As I wrote above I tried to read it in Italian but had to keep looking up words which broke the flow, it's not an easy ready with that flowery old school language.
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KiNgBrAdLeY7: You get rid of an addiction, by growing yourself SICK OF IT. There is no other way. Much like food... You like strawberries for example? Eat a kilo straight at once until you vomit, and i assure you, you are never going to touch the damn stuff ever again.
Nice idea but if you try that with drug addiction you either die or turn into Keith Richards.

To paraphrase Norm Macdonald, 'My father caught me smoking cigarettes and I thought I was in for the whipping of my life but instead he locked me in a closet with a box of cigars and wouldn't let me out until I smoked every single one of them. So that's when I started smoking cigars really heavily.'
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ddickinson: *looks around for awalterj, the coast is clear*
'Tis not, I see thee!

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ddickinson: *runs away before I get caught derailing the thread* :-)
I would never ever berate my number one thread derailing partner-in-crime for derailing, especially because that would land me a place in the 8th circle of Hell among the Hypocrites.

"Chased and bitten by reptiles, interconversion with them"

:-O


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dr.schliemann: Answering via PM, to keep the thread clean. :-)
You needn't worry, I would never get mad at anyone for posting anything off-topic in my thread (unless it's robotic spam which was auto-translated from Chinese to English, rampant in the game reviews on the GOG store pages)



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PhilD: Hi, I've been clean since... hold on gog is running a promo...

Ok, I'm back, I bought all the games in the promo. 80% discount! Sweet deal!! I AM THE KING!!!
What were talking about again?
Hi, PhilD. I think the Alzheimer's session is next door...you're welcome :)


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viperfdl: At the beginning I only bought a few games, then played them and after finishing them I bought some more and the cycle started new. In that time I usually bought the games at full price here on GOG because I needed new games to sink my teeth into it. But a couple of years ago I started to buy more games than I could play. Mostly during sales. It seems to me that I try to lift my mood with getting new games. But it does not work which kind of starts to help withstand the temptation to buy more games.
Thanks for sharing, I can very much relate to that. There is inherently nothing wrong with having a lot of games but if one does it to lift the mood, it only works for a short instant so you have to keep doing it again and again. First it's individual promos and then it's...bundles. Yes, bundles. The horror! :(
We need to address the source and nature of our unhappiness in a more wholesome and sensible way than to try and fill that black hole with endless purchases.


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MaximumBunny: What if you could continue to increase your collection without having to spend another cent? :P
I would keep collecting and willfully ignore any underlying issues that make me do the collecting in the first place. In a way, being broke isn't that bad as it forces a new perspective on things.



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Gnostic: Asked weakly......
Yes, but never addressed seriously. Hence, the topic pops up every now and then, here and there. We laugh it off. I'm trying to dig deeper because personal development is quite important to me, and I'm sure it is to many others as well.

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Gnostic: Does kickstarter games count?
I can't say, you make the rules for yourself. I just grabbed the first chair in this round, I don't set the rules. We can listen to each other but you must decide in the end how and if you will limit your collecting.
I need to join! A year and a half ago, I owned zero digital games. Today, at least a thousand, over 400 here, with maybe 10 or them played.

I guess I'm a hoarder, shopaholic, and obsessive collector. I just can't resist these sales or bundles where the games average a couple bucks or less.

I honestly want to install and play them all someday, but realistically I know it's never going to happen.
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samlii: Is there a special sub-group for bundle purchasers?

Last relapse: This morning :(
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iphgix: The bundles are cheap so it is hard to escape the , 'it's just a buck or two' mentality.
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AnimalMother117: You would think the GOG staff would take this thread down or something, since their whole purpose is to sell games...
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awalterj: The fact that they don't close a thread like this is the very reason I have spent most of my money here instead of e.g. on Steam. I only betrayed GOG twice when I bought the Fallout series and Runaway 3 on Steam sales instead of waiting for a sale here. I ended up getting the GOG versions as well so now I have zero games in my non-GOG collections that I don't have on GOG as well, making me quite a loyal fellow.
I'll keep buying games from here but have to take a break. I'm quite certain that GOG staff would approve to me playing more of their games instead of just being a zombie collector. By playing games, I ultimately spread more love for GOG in this world than by hoarding endlessly.
I contemplated deeply before making this thread, debating with myself if making such a thread violates the "don't shit where you eat" principle, a principle I certainly believe in.
However, this is not a call for rebellion, I'm not telling people to not buy games. I want to discuss the topic of game purchasing addiction in a group therapy manner and my current decision to not buy any games does not have to be someone else's decision. It's a drastic measure for myself as I haven't come up with a better solution plus as I said, I simply can't afford it. For anyone who is equally broke, it is definitely a sensible decision to stop buying games for the time being. This is not a protest in any way.
Thanks for the insightful reply, and here I was just making a cheap joke. Although I too have not purchased any games for a while the last time being Agarest War, mostly because I want to support GOG getting more Japanese games. That said I will try to play through more of my games before buying more, so good luck to all of us!
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DieRuhe: Eh? In the old days, I would never have been able to over-buy games. A new game cost between $70-90, it was a special occasion once in a blue moon. The rest was borrowing/lending and piracy :/
Translation: I had money. I don't now. :-)

oops. i was responding to awalterj. man i hate the quote editing!
Post edited January 06, 2015 by DieRuhe
Hi I'm silvrbacgorrila and I'm a game buying addict. I've been clean since Jan 1st 2015.

It started with consoles. Purchasing a new release here, buying a hidden gem from a resale shop there. But back in March of last year I built my first gaming PC and that's when the problem started. Since then I've purchased nearly 100 games on Steam, and a dozen or so here on gog. I knew I hit rock bottom when I resorted to buying a few on Origin. I've only completed 3 or 4 of those games. I need help...but the sales...the flash sales oh god the community choice sales...
Haven't bought a single game since 14/09, it's super easy when you don't have money
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ggf162: ...it's super easy when you don't have money
So I should give away all my money then to prevent myself from my mountainous pile of digital goodness that is games? Seems a little silly. =P