AudreyWinter: Well, I'd interpret that as being female, not girly. Except for the sewing, that's just being practical.
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A bit of a stretch, that one. I see it more the way that the actress acts girly.
Oh yes. I was definitely stretching things as far as I could. I don't enjoy the new Triss as much as I would like to, and I think there are writing and performance choices that contribute to that, but I don't want to go too far and say that they ruined her, either.
"Girly" is a tough word. It can be negative or fairly neutral. I meant it more in the neutral sense--much closer to your use of female, probably. Thanks for being clearer than I was.
@Kahunaburger
Well, that's true. She's usually at her worst when she's stammering around nervously in front of Geralt. And yeah, any catfight between Triss and Yennefer is going to be even more painful because Triss really wants to find and save the friend she also betrayed. Awkward.
The only thing about the ending you reference (which I got and loved) is that Philippa and Sile both indicate that Triss doesn't know everything. They're defending themselves, obviously, but with Triss's track record of reckless do-gooding and getting in over her head in political machinations, there might really be more to it. The self-confidence she finds for that scene is fantastic, but oh boy could it end up getting her in trouble. Muuaaahhhahahah. ;)