candesco: Avoid Darkmatters. Bunch of unprofessional people over there, especially that person called gogoblender. As long as you lick their heels and bow for them it's fine, but as soon as you have any critics they show their ugly face.
I was a member out there for a while and officially i still am, but i haven;t used my account there for quite some time after a nasty run in with that gogoblender dude. If i recall it right then i made a post about that cm patch and it was about it's features. Had some questions about it. Just a normal post and no calling names or such. Then i got a message of gogoblender that my posts would be monitored now and such. I wrote back that i didn't accept this kind of behaviour and never looked back afterwards. That gogoblender acted like a dictator and that is not how you should treat people. Better go to the official forums.
DarkMatters is pretty mellow now. It looks like I joined after you made your farewells to the forum in 2010, but in the last 5 years I haven't noticed any abuses of power though I also don't know what went on behind the scenes before my time.
I will say this, I'm a moderator there now and as far as I can see everyone is made to feel welcome. I think more importantly, the site is still the central hub of activity and discussion for the game, as well as hosting the SacredWiki. Official forums, not so much.
I continue to make changes and enhancements to the game, as well as updating the SacredWiki and keeping various mods from over the years up to date. I'm also on the CM Patch team as of v1.5 in a limited capacity.
In other words, if there was something gamebreaking you found about the CM Patch, there are still friendly ears willing to hear and address it. :)