Grogger: I think considering that cheating or not is a personal thing. Some might think so, some might not. I don't think that's the important thing though.
If you haven't played Project Zomboid before I would strongly suggest not using the map.
The reason I say that is because you only get to have the feeling of exploring and finding new things once. You only get to run into the unknown once. Once you've been there before, or examined it on the map, you can't discover it again.
That feeling of wondering if it's safe to run this way, or explore that way is a great part of the game, unfortunately it's also something which vanishes once you know the area.
In a way I'd compare that aspect to something like playing Dark Souls for the first time while not knowing anything about it. You end up running into places you shouldn't be, places you aren't prepared for and sometimes places which end up great.
Using something like a map, I don't think it matters if its cheating, play however you want so long as you enjoy it. Though if it's the first time playing a game like this, you're going to be robbing yourself of those feelings of discovery, of being lost, which for me were the best parts of the game.
I still remember the first time I played it long ago, not knowing what was out there, which way to go or what to avoid. You can't get those feeling once you know the map, which is the main reason why I haven't played it in ages. All my best memories of the game were from when I was going to new places, getting myself in trouble and then managing to eventually escape.
Good post.
As it is, even without the map I'm getting a sense of where things are kind of located which I guess is really all you need. It's a beautiful layout; industry zones, residential, commercial.
And BTW, these are all REAL towns in Kentucky! Wonder how they feel about it. ;P