InEffect: Most reviewers are not gamers. And most of them just repeat what others said. Truth is if you are adept enough at PF to build a party that would survive combat-heavy AP - it would be fine on normal/challenging. Extreme min/max is only needed for unfair.
min/max character will be about 5-10% better at everything he does than average dude. That is assuming picking perfect feats.
As for the build itself... Normal/challenging does not require perfectly made build with meta knowledge attached so long as you use spells and abilities competently.
DnD in general is not for everyone. Kingmaker is a combat-heavy AP that was in many respects harder than the game you've got. Story/Easy have mob stats lower than they would be in PnP, cuts out many mechanics like stat damage and game showers you in magic items. If someone can't beat the game on easy they should not play DnD period. RP or not.
And yes, it must be possible to screw up so bad you lose the game. What's the point of the game you can't lose?
I wouldnt say that, tempting as it would be. And by reviews, I don't mean ~20-hour gameplay ones. A lot of the negative reviews come from people who've played over 80, a hundred hours, etc. And some of these are long, well-written, some specific. So for someone to take the time to play a game
and write a seemingly comprehensive review only for said review to not recommend it should bear weight. Especially to someone like me, admittedly I don't have the timesink to metagame anymore. My take is that I just want to have fun, experience the story, lose battles, but not have to tear your hair out to make things work, make things fun - which some comments seem to imply.
And by
everyone, I meant people who play cRPGs. I was in a hurry when I wrote that. Again, talking about reviews, the impression is that Baldurs Gate was hard - not for everyone, challenging but it was fun. This game seems to be unfair.
That said, Ive also read on some of your builds too so it goes without saying you know the game almost inside out. So the insight is worth noting and appreciated. Maybe I'll let it
develop a bit. Devs look like theyre really active with the community.