Ok I am very open minded about how I stomp. That said here is the primise.

1. Best all around adventurer. Someone you would want to BE if you could go to the sword coast today.
2. Dont take no crap off anyone. Rage in his left hand and hate in his right. Like I said dont care how he kills.
3. Being able to heal and cure a big plus but not required.

I am not here to push others around but I will be dead and buried before some punk pushes me around kind of mentality.

In a game sense a build that can run all the campaigns at will. I know there are quite a few folks out there that know the game better than me so put your thinking caps on boys and girls and turn out a killer for me:)

Opps NWN2 Original though MotB

Have you tried searching the example builds or checking the forum on the NWN2 character database? A lot of build experts there.

Totally a matter of opinion. My personal favorites are Sorcerer and Fighter/Rogue multiclass, but there are lots of other fun classes. Sounds like you're leaning to melee. Clerics make for great melee warriors. Use your magic to buff yourself up, then smash skulls.

Human with 16 str, 12 dex, 14 con, 10 int, 16 wis, and 8 cha would work well given what you've stated. That gives you enough skill points for Concentration, Diplomacy, and one other skill of your choice.