So I've decided to give it a go. Found the latest info page here:
https://github.com/Malekitsu/Maw-Mod-MMMerge/blob/main/README.md Here's the install instructions:
1. download MM8 from GOG
2. following 3 files needs to be copied into MM8 folder in that exact order.
download MMMerge here:
https://1drv.ms/u/s!AklOx6zaOmQgbHB1-Avia15ruaI?e=H4IcBJ download Multiplayer here:
https://gitlab.com/letr.rod/mmmerge/-/archive/multiplayer/mmmerge-multiplayer.zip download Patch here:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1IwF-MADHqpXOjHwOzYJxLcoUKh1Q4gXb/view download MAW MMMerge here:
https://github.com/Malekitsu/Maw-Mod-MMMerge/archive/refs/heads/main.zip 3. put MM8 folder into desktop
4. set mm8.exe into Windows Service pack 2 (or 3) compatibility mode.
5. check difficulty & bolster settings once in game (ingame esc/controls/extra setting on top)
Completed step 1, no problems. Next I'm told to copy the following 3 files in which there are 4. So I clicked on all 4 and downloaded them (I guess). What do I copy into MM8 folder? Don't understand what step 3 or 4 are asking me to do.
I'm sure this is all very simple to those who understand it. Unfortunately I'm an idiot. I'm beginning to think that if I can't handle installing the game then maybe I have no business even trying to play it. I have great respect for those who find this type of thing easy. Perhaps I'm too old and surviving a stroke seems to have tapped all of my patience.