Happyloaf: Can you tell me where the item is so I don't miss it.
Sure. The item is the "Holy Grail", and it's found in the Gate of Guidance, which is the first area of ruins that you get to explore. There's a tall waterfall near the right-hand edge of the area, several rooms high, pouring out of one of those giant stone mouths. In one of the rooms the waterfall flows through, there's a chest that contains the grail. (If you check the name of those rooms on the map, I think they're called the "Grail Chamber" or something similar.)
In order to get to the chest, though, you have to solve a rather... annoying/bullshit puzzle. I won't spoil the solution, but if you get fed up with it (many people do), feel free to ask for more help.