Ok the priest I need talk to that possible took the holy relic or least what drunker told me, but he so piss at me he would not even bother talking.

He'll talk to you after you retrive the relic. (hint: it's not on him)

Are you guys talking about monstrance of saint orthenius? I found that relic but i cannt find brother romius who supposedly stole it. where is he?

he stands by the church. to the left

I was wondering if I had missed anything by not talking to romius before I killed his master. Guess I didn't. Though I might have missed out on other clues. I talked to him once the first time I mapped out the town but completely forgotten about him until the executioners assistant fingered him for the theft of the relic. /shrug.

romius wasn't very talkative so you probably didn't lose much. in fact, you could lose some money if talking to him, because he wanted gold before ansewring your questions, and the answers were rather irrelevant to the plot :P

So my boot would have ended up lodged in his rear either way. Good deal. ;)

Yeah it's in the graveyard. I forgot which though. I do know it's protected by a guy who keeps regenerating. The info on how to beat the guy is in the walk though thread I think

You find him LEFT of the church (outside).
You must have the MONSTRANCE (the relic) on you and he will speak to you.
He is quite resilient but you must win the fight and then turn the quest.

If you return the relic, you won't have it on you and he won't speak to you, therefore failing the quest.

You can hand in the relic to Vallorian and then talk to Romius, yes. Make sure you're on the latest version if it does fail.

I went to the dungeon in that church in the cemetery but the gate had nobody behind it.