Gah, okay, getting somewhere with playnite.
So I went with eMixedNiteMc theme b, which seemed promising, combining ideas from different themes.
https://playnite.link/forum/thread-801.html To get started, you have to download the theme, which is under "Add-ons->Browse->Themes Desktop"
But wait, you're nowhere near done yet, that'd be too easy, remember I said it's better to have everyone work everything out instead of giving a nice one-shot package that configures things nicely for you. Now you need a whole a bunch of other add-ons, which you will install from Add-ons->Browse->Generic. There are quite a few which the theme expects you to have, I attached the screen capture after you grab everything indicated for this theme and the theme it's derivative of.
After installing all that, you're expected to wade through dozens of add-on settings pages, _which do not have nice defaults_, are you seeing a theme here? Fortunately, MCC321 has created a screen-by-screen example of his settings. you can find it here:
https://github.com/MCC321-QC/eMixedNiteMC/wiki/eMixedNiteMC-Settings That is still nowhere near enough, that'd be too easy! Presuming you set up your store integrations, you have probably noticed by now Playnite will not find majority of games cover art in it's default settings .. Familiar yet?
Head over to "Add-ons->Browse->Metadata Sources" and install "Universal Steam Metadata", this is actually created and maintained by Playnite guys but it's not part o f the default install because of, you know, because. There's also SteamGridDB, but I would imagine the playnite's own steam import should work nice..
But wait, this is not enough yet! Now you have to _import_ the cover art and other data to your game library. Head over to "Library->Download Metadata" and add your Steam Universal Metadata to appropriate fields, probably all of them. This is note done for you, because, you know.
This will take seriously long time depending how large library you have, so go watch some TV series or something while it'll do it's stuff.
Now the one thing still missing at this point is getting the nice "owned games / installed / GOG.com / Steam / etc" quick selection at the left toolbar. I'm sure there's some arcane way to add it. Yes, you can group games by source but that doesn't give you quick filter, it'll instead list your whole library in order for each store at the same time that you can "conveniently" scroll through.. Okay, to be fail you can collapse a said store but that's not quite convenient and getting back to "all installed games" is not one-click affair.