MobiusArcher: There are a lot of really interesting quests to complete in the elder scrolls games, but its not just about questing like in most RPGs. I hardly bother with faction quests. I just go do whatever I feel like doing. Its just a big sandbox, and I like to play. Also, I don't think its necessary to have an effect on the world. I certainly don't have much of an impact in the real world either. That's just me though. I do understand where your coming from, and I'm not trying to convince you that you should want the same things I want out of an RPG.
My biggest frustration came from the factions, because I really, really wanted to be a professional thief. I entered the faction and I felt like being a part of something cool.
We had a code and everything. And then I learned by accident this code means actually nothing.
It's Fallout 3 all over again. "Oh, you want to destroy megaton, huh? You know it will kill dozens of innocent people!"
Except the one person who gives you the biggest quest in that time.
You know, just in case you didn't want to have any consequences of what you're doing.