ChrisSD: Eh? They're not the only two options. People play many single player games (from tetris to torchlight) without any regard for "lore" or story and without "sport" or competition. It's still fun. The big draw of MMOs is the social aspect which you don't often get in single player.
I don't see where the hate is coming from to be honest. If you don't enjoy playing MMOs then that's fine. I don't like some gaming genres but I don't think that they should stop being made.
Crosmando: No, what I was saying is that in a single-player game there's no need to competitive about how you build your character and what gear you get, because who are you competing against? Yourself?
The multiplayer part of MMO's is what makes the stories and irrelevant. I mean does anyone in MMO's read what NPC's say for the great atmospheric dialogues with lots of choices? Of course not, they just click yes and go do the fetch quest.
Does anyone playing torchlight care about the paper-thin story? Or do they just get on with killing things? I'm not sure there are big differences. There was recently talk.about people skipping the story bits in Heroes Chronicles and just enjoying the game. The story isn't the be all and end all. And some people in MMOs actually do care about the story stuff but that isn't the big draw for most. Fighting enemies with your friends is what's fun.
And yes some people will competitively go for the best gear but most people I know are just in it for the raids with friends. Nothing compels you to go for the best gear. You're playing WITH friends not against them. You help each other out and share.
On the other hand some people who play single player games will feel compelled to be the first to max out everything and go everywhere and then boast about it on a forum. So what? If that's the way they want to play I'm not going to call for an end to single player games because of them.