Isn't iTunes DRM-free nowadays? I honestly wouldn't know - I've actually never bought a digitally-downloaded song (I almost never buy CDs either - I listen to the radio).
Not necessarily, although it is true that the primary motivation of many publishers to use Steam - especially with retail products - is its capacity as a DRM provider. If Valve suddenly declared that they were abandoning DRM, Squeenix and the like would immediately up and shift to another platform.
synfresh: Any MMORPG is DRM
Difficult to say. There are some games that really were designed with a multiplayer experience in mind, and it's hard to say whether the intention to control content post-sale was there.
However, there are almost certainly games out there that are not inherently MMOs, but have been made such to justify their absurd DRM (Sim City, Diablo 3).
synfresh: Heck, even Windows OS's are DRM (you cannot freely transfer keys from computer to computer and must authenticate with Microsoft's servers to receive updates).
Windows has DRM, it isn't DRM.