jefequeso: You're letting your own beliefs (a lack of beliefs would be someone who has no opinion on the matter, which you obviously are not) blind you. Atheists do just as much to try and force their own beliefs on others as Christians do--and this is true even when those beliefs are perfectly legit. I don't think there is a single issue I've seen where Atheists weren't just as aggressive and just as dogmatic as the Christians they were debating. I don't see how "churches" enter into this discussion. The presence or lack of a communal gathering place doesn't at all relate to how pushy someone is.
crazy_dave: Only if view not letting someone else force their religious view on people as forcing your views on them which some (and I'm not saying you are one) religious people do. I can't tell you the number of times I've heard a right-wing Christian say that allowing gay people to marry violates their constitutional rights to religion - note they weren't being forced to attend or have it in their place of worship, just that it would happen at all was against their rights. If believing that's nonsense is pushing one's views on someone else, then yeah I'm guilty. I'm curious as to when you've experienced atheists enforcing their view on you?
I'd also like to point that being secular is not the same thing as being atheist. There are many upon many religious people who believe quite strongly in separation of church and state- some even more than their atheist counterparts.
Are there assholes who are atheists? Absolutely. I've met quite a few who disgusted me to the bottom of my core. Have I met assholes who were liberal? Yup. Have some of my best friends and people whose intelligence and decency I have never doubted been conservatives and some even religious conservatives? Yes (though the religious ones are open minded towards how other people live their lives). I long since learned that simply because someone purports to believe in the same things you do neither makes them intelligent nor a decent human being. The corollary being that there are many intelligent, decent people who believe in very different things.
Have I ever had an Atheist come up to me and try to convince me to become an Atheist? No, not really. So in that sense, I will agree that Christians tend to be a little more "go getter." However, there's a HUGE difference between presenting your beliefs to someone else (which really shouldn't be discouraged), and bludgeoning them with your beliefs (which almost universally should be discouraged). Have I had Atheists attack me or my beliefs once they learned that I was a Christian? Yes I have.
But regardless, I agree precisely with what you say.
kavazovangel: On a related note, they wanted to add a mandatory subject, something about Jesus and crap, for 10 year old kids to learn. How's that not aggressive?
ddmuse: It is both aggressive and wrong. But in other places, the opposite situation occurs: I watched an interesting show on PBS recently about laws in France that forbid students from wearing religious symbols (headscarves, crosses, etc). The problem isn't religion or atheism but rather people wanting to control and dominate other people. The Crusades, religious wars, killed millions. So did the atheist Soviet Union under Stalin.
Possible solutions:
- Ron Paul
- awakening Cthulhu
- cleansing fire scouring the surface of Earth
- ?
Very well put...exactly what I think.
jefequeso: Perhaps it's just the area I live in, but that hasn't been my experience at ALL. Quite the opposite, in fact. I'm always a little afraid when I tell people I'm a Christian (although I wish there was a better way to label myself, because "Christian" comes with all sorts of connotations, most of which are not true about me), because the majority of people I'm around are either Atheists, Agnostics, or "I Don't Give a Fuck Just Give Me A Beer"-ists.
Could also be a generational difference. I'm not sure how old you are :P.
crazy_dave: I'm young (26). Universities and so forth tend enrich slightly for atheists, but I've never actually heard of a place that was predominately atheist. Where abouts (generalities) do you live?
Northwest Pennsylvania