awalterj: These clandestine gaming sessions were usually hampered by my little sister feeling left out and blackmailing us so that
one of us had to play little ponies etc with her or else she'd tell our parents: "Mama, Papa, they played on the computer again!"
ddickinson: So, you finally came out of the closet and are admitting you're a
Brony! I knew it :-)! But it was nice that you took the time to play with your sister, even if she did have to blackmail you first.
Not sure if I can qualify as a bronie considering the insidious things I've done - as I confessed in this post a couple days ago:
http://www.gog.com/forum/general/the_who_is_best_pony_thread/post22 That happened before the blackmailing which was in later years and my sister was quite tough when cutting deals with us, we had to play with her for a precisely defined minimum time
and we also had to put some effort into it, or else she'd tell our parents that my brother and I were playing computer games.
Eventually, this strategy backfired on my sister because she ratted us out so many times that, in the end, my brother and I took it for granted that she would betray us anyway and my parents pretty much knew we were "misappropriating" my dad's PC all the time the very moment they left the house and all their creative attempts to stop us proved to be futile. You can't stop addicts from using!
ddickinson: It's never easy for a girl growing up with brothers, especially multiple older brothers. Not that they are inherently mean or anything like that, but boys tend to stick together and share similar tastes, which are often not shared by a sister.
Yes, I think growing up was hardest for my little sister. Growing up isn't easy for anyone, for the first born there is the most pressure and expectations from parents, for sandwich middle children like myself it's not easy because I wasn't allowed the same freedoms and privileges as my older brother and at the same time no longer enjoyed the privileges that my younger sister had.
What made it difficult for my sister wasn't so much the fact that she was a girl - that was not held against her by either my brother or myself - but that she was 5 respectively 7 years younger. That's a big age gap, I mean how are you going to explain Civilization to a preschooler, male or female they won't get it nor enjoy it. If she had shared our interests more and hadn't used her ratting-out tactics so much, we would probably have been a lot more inclusive. On the other hand, what other methods could she have used, this was ultimately and understandably the only leverage she could use in her frustration. Instead of joining our club she wanted us to join her club but getting guys to play my little pony is asking for a bit much and under normal circumstances this can (and did) only happen via blackmail. And even if I agreed on her choice of toys, my sister did not like the kind of stories I came up with. I grew up with toys that were mostly aimed towards antagonistic gameplay: Transformers, Masters of the Universe and so on. You don't normally have the same types of stories unfolding when you play with Skeletor & Co as you have with classical girl toys like the little ponies or Barbie etc.
But ultimately, it's not the toy itself but the play style that sets apart one person from another.
We also played Lego Duplo and a variety of building blocks and other "gender neutral" toys so it wasn't always a chore for us brothers, but the older we got the less common ground there was.
If my sister would have had more friends of her own to play with, maybe she would have cut us more slack but you can't have friends over all the time and even then younger siblings will always seek the approval of their older siblings or at least not want to be left out, that's perfectly normal and understandable.
Luned: Umm, no, I enjoy strategy also, and said so. So your count is off. :)
My apologies, I only counted the people directly answering to the poll so this poll is more of a spontaneous sampling rather than an accurate statistic anyway.
Since there are way too many posts to go through the whole thread, I used the search function to look for the word "strategy" and the current results are now like this:
8 out of 11 female members appear to have a mostly positive leaning towards the strategy genre, that's 73%.
(added you, Elendiel, dudetterinazor, Treasure, FoxySage and gandalfnho to the strategy genre approving group)
My amateur attempt at statistic survey is now completely out of whack as most people posted about the genres they liked and didn't mention the genres they didn't like so the current result might not be all too representative. But one thing is for sure: Way more than 10% of the female members here like strategy games, so the prejudice suspicion that girls in general don't seem to like strategy games appears to need some major overhaul!