Tarnicus: Edit 1 -
Suggestions for forum changes I am reconsidering my decision
purely due to the overhwelming replies I have had via PM and in this thread. I am taking time, where able given my time being a bit more limited, to find a balanced path forward where I don't say "screw you guys, I'm going home" <3
Spinorial: Good. I was just about to tell you you were being an idiot. As to your "grievances", I'll tell you what I tell every silly goose who contemplates leaving: don't mind the dicks! Seriously, just ignore them. Ignore the rep, too. Red, green, mahogany... it's all tosh!
Frankly, I see your problem right there, at the end of your first paragraph:
I've realised that my energy is best directed to other aspects of life.
Spinorial: If you're expending energy,
you're doing it wrong! This place is about relaxing and chatting with decent like-minded folk, plus the occasional primate. The only thing around here which even remotely justifies energy expenditure is one of those fancy giveaways,where people are supposed to put some effort in the entering, and you're supposed to put some effort in the judging. Even that is all meant to, ultimately, make everyone happier, so it's really a net energy gain. If you get into an argument, that's energy wasted, even if you see your points being approved and high-rated. Sometimes you need to do it all the same. We all do. But never imagine for a second that your eloquence will change the world. This is the internet, and it hasn't changed for all the decades I've been on it.
Now forget this thread, forget the forum, the PMs, everything, and go play a game. Both Grimrock and Aarklash sound too cerebral, so just play some Serious Sam. Invite Munki, too - it makes for great co-op >:-)
A wonderful reply and exactly what I have been doing, just not with computer games :)
Today was my first day "back to the bag" after MunkiSiren's father found and erected a nice heavy punching bag in the garage. I worked mostly elbows and they are enjoyably sore. I had forgotten how much I enjoy that release of energy and the "empty mind" blissful feeling that follows. I've been letting this fitness thing that I enjoy so much fall by the wayside, and given I've got some minor surgery coming up, I'd like to be a little bit healthier again beforehand :)
Oh I'm meant to have given away some games and would actually like to put some thought into that, so Sunday looks like the next day where I can do that :)
Oh stuff it, one or two codes sent before sleep couldn't hurt...