GameRager: First sorry about the numbering but it helps me structure longer posts and keep things organised:
1. From your long replies it would seem you were worked up, along with some of the wording you used. And by worked up I mean about the idea of donating to games projects in such a manner, not towards anyone here(just to clarify what I mean here.).
To me, big paragraphs and long replies doesn't mean someone is worked up. I just like talking about stuff and discussing issues. Because I like to be accurate in what I say, this means that sometimes my posts are longer. What I do is assume that other people aren't worked up as well, unless they are openly hostile towards another poster, making the discussion personal. I just read others posts as calmly as I think mine should be read.
GameRager: You seem a bit eager to debase the gamer donation model is all, which made you seem a bit worked up about it to me.....and to me it seems a bit unfounded from what I know about such donation sites/projects & some common sense.
I did give reasons as to why I fell the way I fell, and I do think the model is easily debase-able. Like about how the game might not even be released, plus the other reasons. So with those reasons, I'm not sure how what I said was unfounded. If you don't think the reasons I listed are consistent with common sense, we can discuss it. I'd have to know specifically why you feel that way about each reason first though. In fact, our discussion should have started there, with that substantive issue, rather than going into all of these personal, and ultimately unrelated points.
GameRager: 2. I never said you weren't open to the opinions of others in general. You do seem to be a bit biased in this case though, as to how you feel about game project donation plans...and it shows in how you reply to my posts and what you wrote so far.
I think I can explain this a little better this time around. When someone makes the argument that "it's just your opinion," then the only way I can see to fairly interpret what they mean by that argument is that when typing my post, that I intended to represent my opinion not as my opinion but as some kind of universal or objective fact. I didn't. Most people don't. It can be assumed that everyone is just speaking their opinion and only their opinion, or else we'd have to say "in my opinion" in front of every single sentence which is ridiculous.
About whether what I said seems bias or not, I could say that your posts seem a bit biased too, but how does that advance the conversation at all? It doesn't matter to me if you sound a little bias. This is why all of these things are pointless to discuss. With both of our opinions, it's more constructive and fun to just discuss the substance rather than who is biased, who is being rude, who is worked up, etc. These are personal, non substantive tangents.
GameRager: Also where did you explain that you meant something else by the word scheme, if I may ask? (Though to me it seems you are mistrustful of such plans in general even if you meant something else by the word scheme, to be honest.)
I said something like "I'm not invoking the same connotation for the word scheme as you." So to be clear this time, I was using just the plain old dictionary definition for me.
GameRager: 3. I could be misreading some of what you wrote and some terms you used but I think I got the gist of what you meant. I also wasn't trying to turn this into a personal matter, btw, and was just expressing my own opinions on yours. And I never said you were speaking for everyone, which is why I replied to you and not everyone else in general.
I understand and believe you weren't trying to turn it into a personal matter, but this discussion has been 90% personal and 10% substance. In every heated opinion people give on the internet, you will be able to find a bunch of things to pick apart, as you have here. Unless they are relevant to the substance though, I don't see why anyone would do this. You can win arguments on the issues.
GameRager: 4. The thing is, when you make your views know in such a thread on any topic you should be ready to have your views debated/picked apart/discussed by others (In a civil or close to it way of course) in the same thread. It goes part and parcel with the territory.
I was ready though, hence my long replies and this reply. My interpretation of all this is: "If I explain it to you, then I'm worked up and heated. If I'm not worked up and heated, then I wasn't ready to have my opinions picked apart." See how it's all personal...no substance...one personal thing to another no matter what the other person types.
If I take the time to write up long replies, it's because I'm hopeful that I will be able to find some common ground with the person I'm replying to. You can always find personal things to nitpick at in the other persons' reply. Beat them at the substantive issues of the discussion and the minor, tangent, non substantive, irrelevant points don't even matter, as if they ever did.
GameRager: I was reading it as neutrally as possible.......please stop trying to preach to me like i'm some sort of classless buffoon. ;)
I know all that and that isn't the matter here. The matter is you voiced your view on the matter at hand in a semi-outlandish fashion and I called it(albeit in a slightly crude manner). Simple as that.
Example:
You: This donation model is a scheme and it rips people off...etc etc.
Me: That's crazy....etc etc.
(Also you could've at least tried to respond to some of my post after I typed all that up. :\...)
I typed that up while you were typing your reply. I didn't see your reply until after I had submitted that post.