Mrstarker: Sexyness has never been an issue. You can have perfectly well rounded sexy characters. The issue is about the portrayal of said sexy characters. Lingering ass shots, impractical outfits, etc. At best, it feels cheap and manipulative. At worst, it's undermining the characters or even demeaning to women.
It has also nothing to do with how much or how little flesh is being shown. There are situations where it's perfectly acceptable for the character to dress sexily. However, combat zones, for example, are generally not a good place for high heels or exposing yourself.
And that's the stance that always boggled me.
I always saw feminism like a great achievement for women. Equality of opportunities,equality of rights and freedom. And that's something that I won't contest in any way.
But as feminism advanced in time, it became more and more intrusive, and more and more intolerant.
Equality of rights and opportunities doesn't mean that men and women are biologically, psychologically and sexually the same, or should become the same! Not at all.
Here specifically, we are talking about sexuality.
Men and women are fundamentally not aroused by the exact same things. There are some not so rare exceptions, of course, but generally speaking this is what I think being relevant.
Since the dawn of times men and women carefully chose their partner to ensure that their descendants will be healthy and prepared to the world.
So, for the men, beauty meaned that their progeny will be good looking. Generous breasts and ass meaned fertility. Sensual behaviors meaned that the woman was open to a relationship, and potentially procreation.
For the women, beauty meaned that their progeny will be good looking too. Him being a good hunter would mean that they would never starve. Him being strong physically and morally would mean that their progeny will be strong and survive.
The society has changed of course, and these fundamental roles have changed too.
The sexuality and sexual arousals too... but fundamentally, the core remained the same.
And that's why, saying that "ass shots, impractical outfits etc. feel cheap, manipulative, undermining the characters or demeaning to women" feels extremely wrong to me. These are the really core of why men find women sexually attractive.
If this is not overdone to the point that the game becomes a pornographic one, I don't see why anyone should be ashamed or revulsed by sexualized characters.
The heroine has an outfit or an armor showing cleavage and/or outlining her forms? So what? I don't see her has a sex slave or a sex doll. I find her attractive. That's perfectly normal, and no one should be depicted as a pervert or a "mysoginist pig™" for that. (that's quite the opposite of mysogyny in fact...)
There is no parity with sexualized or not sexualized heros and heroines in that game? Here again I really don't see the problem. Absolute parity isn't equality. The setting, the artistic view of the writers/dev, the public aimed... all of these overthrow that parity "necessity".
Furthermore, the ones who are generally portraying the sexualized characters as unidimensionalled ones (a.k.a sex objects) and shadowing all of their other traits (bravery, magically or martially powerful, agile, smart, sneaky etc.) are generally the radical feminists who can't or don't want to understand other men's desires... or the ones who are directly influenced by that way of thinking. They usually depict theses desires as belittling and abject...wheareas it is the actual opposite! They are in fact perfectly natural and idealising.
All in all, I think that this is a big societal problem. We shouldn't antagonize mens desires to the point that they are considered as devious and enslavering. We shouldn't see parity as equality, since this is reducing men and women to their gender and ignoring their history, their valor and their merit.
Well, I hope that this wall of text will be understandable enough and that syntax or grammatical errors won't be too much of a problem!