Thanks for the effort, let me follow up and summarize.
On expectations from public servants you understood correctly, and the takeaway I see is that you are quite direct and value honesty. Great start.
This RPS interview excerpt is an example of what I referred next - the interviewer wants to engage at a certain level, the interviewee does not - for whatever reason, be it of intentions or capabilities.
Another rhetorical example would be where someone wants you to tell them you love them - but you - being honest ;) - don't, won't or can't.
The follow ups:
What is the issue that is being evaded? - it's rhetorical, we both know what it is, you named it.
Should he lie that he will do something to resolve it? :) - we probably both agree he shouldn't, cos honesty is a fine virtue.
Should he want to want to address that issue? - This is where it gets tricky :) Because even if we agree on the social good from him (from anyone) having those wishes, this is like trying to convince someone to love you. ;)
Soapbox time, since you also were open enough to share more on your personal views.
The radical side in this debate wants to change outcomes through causing very deep behavioral change, and is using overtly psychological and social pressure to achieve that. I think this approach is a fool's errand even if I agree with many of the movement's goals. I also consider such means as borderline coercive.
If sexism is an actual rights violation (female mutilation, forced marriage, sexual slavery), then I'd agree with such means, and more. But the sexism we are all taking about (and isn't that tragic) is equality of outcomes, not of rights. And that's when it gets that far... (freedom of expression, bad or good taste - distractions mostly)
The conservative side wants to maintain the status quo, and has the advantage of established position. Whether I consider this to be fair or not is irrelevant, the power differential is such that direct confrontation in this topic is completely counterproductive - the way these threads go is evidence, but it's obvious many of the radicals are in denial in terms of seeing the implications.
For me the implications (and threat) are obvious, if someone can prepare the battlefield so that some higher coercive element comes into play... like state regulations and implied threat of physical police violence, then we have a whole different game, a whole different leverage. The impossible starts looking possible.
But what's the cost? We think that's wrong don't we? Shouldn't we? ;) We even call this totalitarianism I believe, or social engineering if you're more charitable. This of course is my political pet peeve as I'm ideologically liberal in the classical sense - any such coercion, even for positive intentions is a big no, no. Laissez faire, blah blah...
The question is if we aren't already there, in particular in the US some of the legal changes in terms of rape definitions, or sexual discrimination I think clearly cross the line - these ends don't justify such means.
And now the ironic kicker - the debate around this in gaming I find reflects biological gender differences to a very high degree. A lot of the social roles established for the typical sexes follow directly from the same kind of "power" differential at a micro level. The interesting thing to me, is that the confrontational radical approach to this macro topic is so "masculine".
Sorry for the provocations throughout, trust we are at a level where agreements and agreements to disagree are crystal clear. :)
You see the interviewer as being justifiably aggressive, whereas I see him as slightly abusive. You see the interviewee as slightly dishonest, whereas I see him as justifiably defensive.