OldFatGuy: Let me give you some advice from a much more advanced age.

Have. No. Regrets.

You're only young once, and despite what you may think, which is what we all thought when we were 18 and immortal and middle or old age was a thousand lifetimes away, it doesn't last long. At all. Before you know it, you're graduated, working full time, married, and in your mid 30's and wondering what the fuck happened. And then the next thing you know you're older and looking back on every "opportunity" you ever let get away because of guilt, or fear, or insecurity, or whatever, and.... you regret every one of those choices.

Have as much fun as you can, while you can. I can't put it any more explicit than that without offending many here I fear. Believe me, I was very much explicit in explaining this to my son and nephews.

Have. No. Regrets. Life is a privilege. Live it. Because you never know when you can't anymore, at least the same way you used to.

OldFatGuy: Let me give you some advice from a much more advanced age.

Have. No. Regrets.

You're only young once, and despite what you may think, which is what we all thought when we were 18 and immortal and middle or old age was a thousand lifetimes away, it doesn't last long. At all. Before you know it, you're graduated, working full time, married, and in your mid 30's and wondering what the fuck happened. And then the next thing you know you're older and looking back on every "opportunity" you ever let get away because of guilt, or fear, or insecurity, or whatever, and.... you regret every one of those choices.

Have as much fun as you can, while you can. I can't put it any more explicit than that without offending many here I fear. Believe me, I was very much explicit in explaining this to my son and nephews.

Have. No. Regrets. Life is a privilege. Live it. Because you never know when you can't anymore, at least the same way you used to.

FirestormMk3: I actually agree with you, because this truth is already coming into effect in your late 20s, but "have no regrets" and "carpe diem" does not mean say yes to everything. While one tends to regret more the things he didn't do than did, you can still seriously regret something you did. When you really care about someone hurting them profoundly is something that can scar you for life.

pimpmonkey2382: I agree with the fat old guy, lifes too short to turn down anything. Never turn down a good lay.

FirestormMk3: I actually agree with you, because this truth is already coming into effect in your late 20s, but "have no regrets" and "carpe diem" does not mean say yes to everything. While one tends to regret more the things he didn't do than did, you can still seriously regret something you did. When you really care about someone hurting them profoundly is something that can scar you for life.

OldFatGuy: Experiencing that hurt is as much a part of life as experiencing the pleasure.

Titanium: I can see from your intro that you're a bright lad, and I don't mean to sound like a philosophical prick (pun sorta intended), but whatever you do or don't do in life, your decisions should be made with the insight that to your capacity, you made the best decision you could under the circumstances and with your knowledge of the situation, and that you have therefore no regrets. That's the only life rule I actually follow, and it served me well so far.

tl;dr version: Whether you do it with her or don't, you made the best decision you could and shouldn't regret it. If it's the former, remember, wear protection. If it's the latter... the same, just for the heck of it.

pimpmonkey2382: I can do this all night, take that as you will. lol

OldFatGuy: Experiencing that hurt is as much a part of life as experiencing the pleasure. If you shy away from one because of fear of the other, you're going to miss out on a lot that life has to offer. And if you never experience the hurt, you may not appreciate the pleasure as much. No one said life was without risks. Only those willing to face those risks, will get the most out of it IMO.

corawesome2: Ha-ha, good pun, Also brilliant insight, pretty much an existentialist view point on reality?

corawesome2: A part of me wants to see you try.

corawesome2: I suppose so.

tinyE: OldFatGuy is evidently a Cenobite.

pimpmonkey2382: '
I'd like to, but all that typing would suck like a glory hole.

corawesome2: Hmm, Could you give me a simple explanation of what a cenobite is?

corawesome2: You think that's bad?, My hands still hurt after Dj practice, and she's a hard lady to please. So yes, no one left "happy"
Almost got carpal tunnel....

pimpmonkey2382: Get her on her back more than a 3 dollar hooker on friday night.

corawesome2: Hmm, Could you give me a simple explanation of what a cenobite is?

corawesome2: You think that's bad?, My hands still hurt after Dj practice, and she's a hard lady to please. So yes, no one left "happy"
Almost got carpal tunnel....