lowyhong: So I was quite excited at the time for the Sherlock Holmes Kickstarter project, and wanted to pimp it a bit, and also decided it was a good idea to maybe post in the RPS forum too. I'd
honestly never even lurked on the RPS forums before, let alone posted in it, but I thought it'd be a good opportunity to jump in there, better late than never.
I don't hang out at RPS but I read reviews there, I don't know you or Mr Doo-whatever.
But this part of your post immediately grabbed me.
lowyhong: So I was quite excited at the time for the Sherlock Holmes Kickstarter project, and wanted to pimp it a bit, and also decided it was a good idea to maybe post in the RPS forum too.
I'd honestly never even lurked on the RPS forums before, let alone posted in it, but I thought it'd be a good opportunity to jump in there, better late than never.
Every internet community is different. They all have their quirks, their ideas on how things should be done, their values.
To go to a forum where you admit you never even lurked, and post something that you have no idea would go over well or not, and then complain that you didn't like how they reacted - you really don't think that maybe this not a completely incomprehensible result?
I'm not saying you're the bad guy.
But if you go to a forum where you have no idea of the culture, no idea of the expectations - for instance, whether it's the kind of community where pimping a project in encouraged or discouraged - because you didn't bother to hang out for a while and find out, and then as your first post to dive in trying to make a big, pimpy splash, then can you really complain when a couple of the regulars get grumpy and say that's not how they do things there?
When you go someplace new, it's smart to get a feel for the place, at the very least, before you sound off without knowing how your post is going to go over.
Now, that is in no way a law, or requirement. But it is a good way to help get welcomed in new places online, rather than rejected.
Yes, the GOG forum community is great.
No, not every web community is nearly as laid back, welcoming, and supportive.
But there things that will smooth your introduction into any new group, online or off, and things that are less likely to do so.