Aliasalpha: You shouldn't have to be a mechanic but you should be able to change a tyre, check the oil and fill the fuel tank yourself. Likewise you should be able to update drivers and take basic precautions so you don't have your computer teeming with more viruses than a hooker convention
That basically rules out women from driving cars and maybe also having computers. ;)
I wouldn't call finding one tiny little graphics card setting that's sometimes not even listed among graphic options checking the oil or filling the fuel tank. Also it's often another gamer that finds that solution because the publisher refuse to acknowledge that the game might have problems with a certain hardware because that would stop some people from buying it.
And about drivers. I almost never update drivers. The reason is that I have had to go back to old drivers to get something to work properly more often than having to use the latest drivers. At least with games and programs. Sometimes I feel that driver updates are more fucked up than rushed games.