amok: - do treat your learners as human beings
- respect your learners
- never use sarcasm or satire
- never forget you can learn as much from your learners as they from you
- you can never know everything about a subject, never be afraid to show this to your learners
F4LL0UT: While I kinda agree since in my own experience most teachers who have taught me a lot followed these rules I wouldn't go as far as saying that these are universal rules that have to be followed at all times. I mean, I recall one particular teacher who was a mean bastard, who really induced fear in the students, and actually was highly successful this way. And I can also name a few teachers who followed all these rules and still failed to convey knowledge because they simply had no authority. Also: "*never* use sarcasm or satire"? Would you mind elaborating on that? I mean, are you talking about offending the students or applying these things in general? I mean, sure, with younger students you may want to keep the sarcasm at a minimum (although my GF actually has successfully taught kids sarcasm at kindergarten :p) but then again, sarcasm and satire may help the students perceive him as someone strong, interesting, fun and someone they can identify with.
Yes, you should never use sarcasm or satire in a teaching situation. The problem is that these are always on the expense on somebody, and while the rest of the group might find it funny, you will alienate at least one learner (often more). They will never tell you so, off course. To illustrate, I recently had a 1to1 session with a student who had been on the blunt on such joke, and she said "all I learned in that class is that I am never again asking that teacher any questions". You need to establish a positive learning environment, not one where the students are afraid to do something in fear of be ridiculed (that is what satire and sarcasm do).
For adults, you may use it in teaching material sparingly (as some will still take it literally), and younger children do not even understand it, and it should never be used in any teaching situation for them.
amok: For the rest, it is my belief that most learning happens in conversations and any form of communication. Learning is a social process, and it will never happen in a vacuum. There are theories that learning only happens when information is appropriated, transformed and communicated in any shape (consider the difference between learning a subject and memorising a subject)
F4LL0UT: While I must also say that I think that the social aspect is very important in education and will largely determine the outcome of a program I wouldn't go as far as saying that learning is exclusively a social process. I totally agree that communication is extremely helpful, even if it's just repeating the stuff you've read in a conversation, but I know so many people who have this very rational kind of mind which can just suck up raw information from really "boring" literature in huge amounts and keep it there and actually *understand* it. I understand that you have this very social and friendly approach to teaching and learning (which I personally respect a lot) but I think you may consider it more universal than it is - I mean, I know people who just need this illusion that their teacher is a living breathing encyclopedia which knows everything and isn't ever wrong or else they loose interest. I think the true challenge for a teacher is to satisfy every students' individual needs, I think an excellent or brilliant teacher (not just a good one) needs the willingness and ability to understand all his students and deal with them in the corresponding ways and - here comes the kicker - *without* making the students feel that some are receiving a special treatment, that there's some form of injustice, which is probably the worst thing that can happen.
Off course all learners are different, which is why it is no easy answer to the OP. Each learner and situation are different, and no one can make sure a learner learns anything, there are definitive technique of doing so, only many different theories. You need to pick one you believe in just do as you think is best.
re. book learning. I have no problem with it, I use it alot. I think, though, it depends on what you want to achieve - memorising or learning (and if you make a distinction at all here). I think that for all learning, information needs to be applied, and this application is almost always a social communicative process. If you want a student to learn, he needs to appropriate the information and transform it, if you are only devouring information, you risk "parroting"