Tallima: ^This is one bit of complexity involved in homosexual relationships. Out of all of my gay friends and family, none of them have typical heterosexual relationships, just with a gender changed. Ls Gs Bs and Ts, although we clump them into a LGBT tag, often live in vastly different cultures from each other and from heterosexuals.
Alfie3000: This has to be one of the most ignorant things that has been posted.
Tallima: If the gay community wants a gay life sim, by all means, go and build it. The LGBT community, who knows itself better than anyone else, could build something that best represents how they see themselves. They could include the persecution, the outlying cultures and the uniqueness of the groups.
Alfie3000: "Gay life sim" I don't even know what to say to that. :facepalm: especially with the persecution included. Sounds like fun! (not).
You're being way too harsh on this guy, imo. What he said on the first point? True to a degree; yes LGBT are the same as straight people fundamentality and have the same diversity in mindset, personality, likes, dislikes, etc, it's wayyyyyy blind to say that a gay man lives in exactly the same culture a transgender does. They face vastly different situations (does a gay man take male or female hormones?), challenges and, to an extent, social groups...and descriminations. No idea if you're gay/lesbian or not, but you ever been to a club with a f-m friend who is denied entry because she's not a 'real' guy? That's not cultural cohesion. People *do* lump LGBT together like it's some sort of sanwich acronym, and whilst the communities can be closely knit, no, they are not the exact same. This guy's really got it right; please don't discourage this realisation.
As for the second point, he's just trying to say that if LGBT (hold the onion) wants a better representation, we should make it, because we understand ourselves better. And you know what? He's kind of right. Look at David Gaider in Bioware; pretty much the closest thing we've got to someone to our champion of gay relations in games. But he's one guy, and doesn't write all the relationships; which is why you get things like Xander - sorry, Zevran. People may mean the best, but they may not know what they are doing. Yes, straight people can write gay relationships, but realistically, you need to be gay to get all the subtle nuances that such a romance brings. I'm a fairly confident white guy in Australia; I *can* write a struggling black woman in South Africa, but it may lack some authentic touches because I don't genuinely know what being such a person is like, and thus the person who *is* that who reads the work will see the flaws. Mainstream media should include equal representation when one side of the situation (eg. straight romance) would be presented, unless it really goes against the narrative of the plot (eg. RPG in Medieval Crusades or something, and even then it's up to the designer if they are going for authenticity). But at the same time, if we really want a more acurate depicition, we need to get more gay/lesbian writers into gaming, educate people, and make games ourselves, too.
I haven't read anything of his that comes off as homophobic or malicious; this is some straight guy, trying to understand something different from him. Please, please don't just label him as ignorant and throw it back in his face - that's when people stop trying to understand and don't bother. It may sound nuts, I know, but understanding does come from both sides.