macuahuitlgog: Ok., now you are just being a troll.
Psyringe: Wh ... what? ;)
Look, the situation is this: You are behaving in a peculiarly erratic way that people here have difficulty to understand, as you can see from the past replies. I am honestly and seriously trying to understand what's going on in your head, since it seems to be very different from what's going on on the heads of the other people here, which in turn seems to be the cause of the problems.
And you are calling me a troll.
If I had wanted to troll you, then your posts would have given me at least three opportunities to do so in a much easier way.
Anyway. Currently you're giving me the impression that you don't want to explore this any further. I don't see why else you'd be so aggressive about someone else's attempts to understand your way of thinking. Keep doing what you do then, but be aware that you'll also keep running into the same problem, and unnecessarily so.
Of course, some people will find me difficult to understand. People will always find some people difficult to understand. We are not all the same. Why can't you accept that?
I found most of what you said to be absurd, like you saying what I said is absurd. What I said is common sense... Saying things like "It's pretty safe to assume that people (a) understand friendly advice like "Relax, it's not that important" in the way it's meant, and (b) are competent enough to know how to relax if they are at least 14." No it is not safe to assume this. If someone is not relaxed and after some time is not relaxed, then clearly they have trouble relaxing. If I just needed someone to tell me "relax" then I would be relaxed almost 24/7. And calling me less competent than a 14 year old? Was that necessary? No, your post made me think, you just want to piss me off, so I called you a troll.