langurmonkey: A part of a game where there is violence against a woman or a part of a game where a woman is helpless is just simply a part of the story.
The point she makes in her video, which you also appear to have missed, is not about a single instance where a female gets treated badly. There's nothing wrong when ONE story just happens to have a women getting screwed over. When it happens all the time in every game though, then it becomes a problem. When the portrayals are so often one-sided with women always being weak, never being strong, always being victims, never being heroes, then you have a systemic problem. The point she makes is that the portrayals of females as weak victims far outnumber the portrayals of them as competent saviors. That's a problem.
The issue isn't about any single portrayal. As she mentions, you can probably find justifications in a game for a particular situation. It's about how these portrayals of women come up over and over and over and over in video games across the industry. It's the widescale pervasiveness of the problem that she's addressing.
Why do you play games Langur? Is it because you like feeling badass? To feel more powerful then other NPCs in the game? To accomplish tasks nobody else can do? Women gamers play for the same reasons. How do you think they feel then when, instead of pwning the game and everybody in it, somebody else wins the day instead?
How do you think they feel when they are shoved aside so a male can beat the BBEG? Do you like playing games where the game itself makes you weak and helpless, and does so because of your gender? How can you feel leet and pwn, when the game itself tells you you're weak, stupid and incompetent, so let's hurry up and get someone ELSE in here to fix things?
langurmonkey: For example, in the game Mafia II, several times, you have to rescue helpless male characters. And if you believe there isn't 10000x more violence towards male characters in games, you haven't played a lot of games.
I haven't played Mafia, so I can't comment. The point about the violence is not about COMPETENT women suffering violence. It's about helpless women suffering violence. She has no problem with women warriors being killed or cut down. Watch 10:40 - 11:10. The men you kill a zillion times in games are always COMPETENT male warriors. How often do you fight helpless, crying males who just lie on the ground, with no weapons, never attacking, while you cut them down?