beliar: First play Anachronox, after that Anachronox and finish with Anachronox. After that you might try playing some... Anachronox. Seriously, it's one of the best western RPGs.
As for Planescape: Torment, I don't think its greatness has much to do with nostalgia. I have played it not so long ago for the first time and it was awesome.
When you say you played most of the well known RPGs I assume that you have played: Profanity: Have played Deus Ex, Fallout 2, Penny Arcade, Baldur's Gate aaaand Bloodlines.
I'll try the other ones you've suggested, thanks for the list. Though I imagine some of them are console games? And Witcher is too new for my PC.
You should know that System Shock series are the most requested games on this site. If you get the games through the other means, know that it might be trouble to launch them on new machines, however I managed to play and fully finish SS and SS2 on WInXP. It took some work to get them to play correctly though.
It is said that some people also have trouble playing Anachronox, but I had no trouble to play it on my new machine. And it costs only a dime on amazon.co.uk
Other games I mentioned are for PlayStation1, but I have played and finished them on an emulator without a hitch. Final Fantasy 7 and 8 have PC versions too, but I strongly suggest getting PS ones due to stability, compatibility, size and savestates.
About obscure stuff. These three are all PC games.
My review of
Monster Girl Quest is here. it will tell you what kind of game it is.
On the other hand Utawarerumono is probably my favourite game of all time. It's a VN/Tactical-RPG hybrid with wonderful story.
Tears to Tiara is from the makers of Utawarerumono, but seems like a downgraded version of that game. Personally didn't like it that much, but I know some people that preferred it to UTW.