keeveek: Celibate is the worst of sexual deviations :P
jefequeso: If you're going to say that, could you explain to me why not having sex at all is any worse than having unreprodictive sex (i.e homosexual relations, bestial relations, or use of birth control or an abortion)? The result is the same, so if you're going to label celibacy as being "the worst of sexual deviations," wouldn't you have to label those others as being just as bad?
It's worse because when you have sex (or masturbate), you keep the hormonal and psychic balance. As I understand it, masturbation is also a sin, so this is why child molestation gets common in church.
All human beings have instinctual need of having a family. You cannot replace it by love to God.
PS. Homosexuality is not a deviation - it's pretty common in nature. Celibate is not.
Ask Freud :P
By the way, Ive misspoken. Everything you do to
improve your social status , attractiveness is connected to reproduction. To attract more potential sexual partners, or to provide for your children (better life conditions mean better chances for genes to stay in population) etc etc.
This is how all animal kindgom works, why people should be different? I've read somewhere, that joy from buying new pair of shoues is pretty similar to sexual arousal, with feromones and such.
Maybe some kind of replacement for not having sex with every possible mate, i don't know.
This topic is over for me, cause I am not an expert of any kind. :P