Posted March 13, 2011
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This person comes along and have an experience which leads to a personal view and a particular perception. He then tells about this experience and ten fan-boys jump out of the woodwork barking "you horrible person you, how dare you come here and tell us whats what. Your perception is not valid and meaningless. Not only that, you are quite stupid - off course you should not have used the downloader(?) everybody knows that. This is all your own fault and we are brilliant and exceptionally clever and GoG is perfect as it is".
There is only three responses to this - stand up for your views (in a completely new environment, with no friends) and risk more public 'spanking' or fall flat on your back apologising that this was the perception that you had (which the OP did..) The third of course is leave and never come back. I don't know about you, but I am not so sure if this is the way to:
a) welcome a new member
b) receive critique on something that we all knew where wrong to start with.
I must say that this apply to the beginning of the thread, it gets better as it goes along. But it goes to show how territorial some people can get?
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I sense you've experienced the raw side of our community. I'm sorry for your bad experiences. I'm not trying to argue you out of your opinion, I'd just encourage assuming that people are trying to help, not hurt.
(fanboys might not have been the most correct term to use (though some of them sure feels like it sometimes), however I don't quite buy the "cars use gas" its more like "this car use diesel, why are you putting petrol in it - but it said 'can use petrol here' and I am not a mechanic" allegory.... very long allegory, yours is much more snappier)
Post edited March 13, 2011 by amok