gameon: Everyone says that, but i've seen several "social" people who are useless drunks, or fly-by-night personalities.
Telling the guy to grow up is a better way of saying it.
Gazoinks: Aye.
I hate the implication that somehow discussing games seriously makes you a lifeless basement-dweller, but it's alright to discuss any other media as much as you want.
And to the OP: Use cover. Shoot people. That's, uh, mostly it. Whatever you do, don't play Demon's Souls. :P
I kind of am, lol. But i have never been as Geeky in personality as alot of guys that "have no life". I find it hard to tolerate overly social people, but i'm not enough of a hardcore geek to fit in with the stay at home crowd. Loner it is.