Catoblepas: ...I remember reading the Dark Elf Trillogy, and one or two more books involving an orc invasion by the many arrows(?) clan..
Yea, those would be continuation of the Icewind Dale line, straight power fantasy. Ie, pretty decent D&D books, as in showing how the party gets stronger and stronger and beats bigger and badder opponents. Even the fighters are not total losers, unlike in all Weiss Hickman books, where nobody is cool and capable but the mages.
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As a side note, what I can actually recommend, is Robin Hobbs Assasin Apprentice series.
Down to earth high fantasy. An amount of realism and rough edges aplenty. But not as much as in Song of Firen and Ice, not as much swearing, intestines and genitalia, certainly not describing every damn stale bread the "heroes" break their fast with.
And despite the name, it's not a brooding dark emo hero either. Actually rooting for the good guys,
And not D&D.