orcishgamer: God damn dude, you were phenomenal at giving them the benefit of the doubt, I'm really sorry what you were looking forward to this much fell this short of expectations (being mildly disappointed is fine, imo, this sounds like more than that, though).
I believe in taking people at their word when they haven't given me reason to doubt them in the past. As I said to Roman5 I prefer to want games to be good than hang on every possible piece of bad news complaining about a game before it's even out. However I also said I wouldn't hold back when I finally got my hands on the game and i'm not going to. I'm 25 hours in and these are my impressions:
+ Writing is solid.
+ Quests are more varied than DA:O.
+ Voice acting is mostly great with only one or two exceptions.
+ Animation has been vastly improved.
+ Combat is much more fluid with characters actually acting in a fight rather than shuffling around.
+ Several WTF moments, especially involving Hawkes family. Overall a much better story than DA:O
+ Loading times much shorter.
+ Graphics for the most part much better than Origins
+ Voiced Hawke is much better than mute Warden. (My opinion) "ISABELA!!"
+ Companions are far more fleshed out than Origins.
- Copypasta borders on unreal. I'm not kidding when I say you will see the same locations over and over again with a blocked door or a cave in to pretend it's somewhere else. The map even shows the full area.
- Tactics have mostly been thrown out the window.
- Loot is largely pointless. In fact most loot even has a trash icon. Might as well just loot gold.
- Redesign of the elves is universally reviled. Merrill may have a lovely voice and may indeed be as cute as a button but there is no way i'm hitting that.
- Still the same problem with conversations. Not as bad as ME2 but you will still pick an option and Hawke will say something completely different.
- Spawning NPC's have no place in an RPG, at least not spawning right in front of you.
- I really hate you have to search for items to upgrade your companions. There is a perfectly good set of Rogue armor I just found with 5 stars and its useless as my Hawke is a warrior. More vendor trash YAY.
So yeah it's not all bad by a long stretch. I've played all those hours and i'm going to continue playing it as i'm enjoying the story. Hell I might start a new game when I finish as well to try a Rogue out. Still doesn't take away from the monumental fuck up they made here. Dragon Age 2 deserved to be a fantastic game like Origins but because it was rushed and every possible corner was cut it ends up being just a good game and good isn't enough for a company like Bioware.