Posted January 24, 2012

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I'm not sure I have anything much to say in reply to your other post :P. There's nothing there to argue with.
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Well, I guess I could just restate that I think it was pretty obvious from the beginning that Roman's post was going to get downrepped. That sort of thing (a post that invites the ubiquitous emotionally charged response to perceived racism) doesn't survive for long (I'm actually surprised the initial response wasn't more aggressive).
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And also, I don't think there's anything at all wrong with calling people out for things that you think are wrong. It's not an intrinsically bad thing. But also, I think it's important to realize that it isn't intrinsically GOOD either. Speaking your mind plainly and openly even if it might offend people...well, it very rarely changes anyone. When they get angry, most people will shut down any willingness they might have to admit that they're wrong. And admitting wrong is something that 99% of the population is never going to do, even if they're not extremely pissed off at the person they're arguing with. So in cases where you are actually trying to change someone's mind, the best approach is usually the gentle, cautious approach. Do everything you possibly can to make sure they feel like you're someone worth listening to, and not a threat. You know that whole routine they do in movies? Where a heated argument usually ends with some pithy, profound one-liner that leaves the other character dumfounded and speechless? Yeah... that never actually happens.
:)
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Well you could agree with something or just reply neutrally. 0.o
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It depends on the forum and the people visiting it I guess. But now that you mention it it wasn;t too bad(the opposition I mean.)
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I can still try, can't I? ;)