CaptainGyro: people get offended being called male or female? I find that kinda depressing
F4LL0UT: My ex hated it when I addressed her as "woman". Yeah, some people are strange.
That's perfectly understandable, actually. Addressing a person by their gender is offensive. If you know a person you should use their name, and if you don't you should just say "Excuse me, but..." or something like that.
My biggest issue with female / woman is that people use them incorrectly. In English 'female' is an adjective, so saying 'female gamers' is correct usage, but the thread title is incorrect. 'Are there any women on here?" would be correct.
Adzeth: I'd be like super happy if people started saying men and women instead of male and female. I knew this one guy who kept calling women "naaras" (female) and it was so creepy that it makes me lose faith in humanity. Is there even a reason to use male/female as nouns?
No. No, there is not. The only excuse is ignorance, which is unfortunately widespread.
In the US it's actually not always polite to use male / female to refer to humans. It varies by region and social setting