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NOW HEAR THIS:

Fellow GOGlodytes,

Recently our weekly giveaways that we've loved so much have been put on hold for various personal reasons of the kind donors. However we as a group feel that it is important that there is a regular event that just brightens a person's day. So in honour of our absent, and much regarded, weekly gifters, a group you may now know as "The Sigil" have decided to hold a weekly giveaway for all to enter.

A simple throw your hat in, a $10 game of your choice if you win.

Sachys has kindly agreed to manage this process, and ensure that the winners get their codes. It may take a bit longer than with the other giveaways simply to co-ordinate it.

Post to be entered. Our identities are not to be revealed by the winners - or else their future entries will be refused.

Kind Regards,
The Sigil

ADDITIONAL:

This is a simple lottery - one person, one entry. Entries for anyone other than yourself and your own personal gaming enjoyment will not be counted.

* * * UPDATED ENTRY REQUIREMENTS:
Recently a surge of new users has been noted. In an effort to integrate them into the community here and provide them with identity, ALL entrants must now have an avatar and something other than "new user" as their "forum title".
The title can be changed , and the avatar [url=https://secure.gog.com/account/settings]HERE.
Entries not adhering to these requirements will not qualify.

YOU MAY RETURN TO YOUR GOGLODATION!


ENTRIES CLOSE 6PM GMT WEDNESDAY MARCH 19th


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...and from me guys: if you could please refrain from bumping the thread, it would be a great help as it makes keeping tally and checking for double entries a little difficult.

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The following is for your information, and does not affect your entry in any way:

The close date for this edition of the giveaway is two weeks away.
This is due to the fact my dad is currently in the hospice, and will not be returning. The universe has decided to revoke his breathing visa, and he will, at some point in the coming days, be deported to whatever is beyond what we know.

As a former merchant sailor of fifteen years, and having done his national service as a mechanic in the army back in the height of the cold war, he seems well prepared (he already has his bags packed for his "big trip").
Having conqured cancer twice in a year (and within two weeks of each being back hiking again, and telling his old salty tales of life at sea in an era few had such a scope upon), it has come as something of a surprise to us these last few months that his health has plummeted. The cancer has returned. His liver (what was left after the second cancer) is corrupted by it and he will not survive.

At the age of 79, October just gone, my dad has seen it all: lived on a lighthouse, witnessed the glory of the Glasgow shipyards in their heyday in his childhood. He was a wartime evacuee and watched as german bombers flew over the river Tay towards Dundee and Perth. Cheered as the flak guns fired at them, and shrank in horror at the result.

He drove munitions, troops and mechanised infantry along the iron curtain during the height of the cold war in a time of panic, escalation and reasonable fear of all out armageddon.
He imported denim jeans, Johnny cash and Rock N Roll music to the UK in a time when the only citizens who knew about it were people like him - and their families.

He was at the cuban missle crisis, and against orders, ensured sinking boat refugees got on his ship, he sailed the Artic wastes, ran from armed militants in a South African port during tensions, and was saved by some young black men that helped change his world perspective. he shifted crates on the New York docks as a bit of spare cash - hired by a mafia crook. He fought the Krays over the choice of a Duane Eddy tune on the jukebox in a London docklands cafe and spent time in prison for armed robbery because when he left national service, there was nothing for him to return to.

When he returned from sea, he fathered three kids and worked himself to the bone to keep them alive - in a factory. When he was ade redundant, he continued to work at any available job. He eventually got a job again at the factory as a cleaner and worked there until his mid 70s.

He was a source of knowledge on the second world war, sruvivalism, nature... and oddly, the paintings of Turner.

He has outlived all but five of his siblings (from a family of at least thirteen)... and he remembers so little of it all.
I'm the lucky one in the family - for all the shit I've had to deal with these last few years in looking after the crotchety old bastard, I'm the one whose able to share them with you - to have known all that from someone who was there.
He will soon be no more.

So, for this fortnight, it's not just for the absent friends - I'd like it if you could share a tale or two about your friends and family that have passed on. let them have a bit of eternal life on the internet - because its like an elephant that way.

...and for the record, any "sorry", "prayers" or "my heart goes out to" kind of comments aren't welcome - neither of us have ever liked that kinda sentimentality.

Live your life and leave that shit for the hippies and blaze some fucking JOHNNY CASH! - that's what my dad has done, and thats why I will miss him.

Edit: forgot to add, I said to him I'd do this the other day. His response:

"FUCKIN NUMPTIES!"

:)
Post edited March 19, 2014 by Sachys
I'm in, Sachys. but +1 though. I am very, very sorry to hear about your father. My condolences.

I would like make a general note as there's been lots of people in my extended family who have passed on. Some of them I know, and some of them I don't quite know. Each loss though inevitably brought sorrow to those who have known them. Life is hard, but each of them made the most out of it. That is what anybody could ever do.
Post edited March 04, 2014 by niniendowarrior
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Also, just want to thank the community for their help and support through the last eighteen months whislt I've been an active member - its thanks to many of you, and the community at large that ive been able to cope with the challeneges before this one. The easy one. Your gifts, your advice, your attempts to find me more paying work... all of it.
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Sachys: Also, just want to thank the community for their help and support through the last eighteen months whislt I've been an active member - its thanks to many of you, and the community at large that ive been able to cope with the challeneges before this one. The easy one. Your gifts, your advice, your attempts to find me more paying work... all of it.
You're a valued member here, Sachys. :) I can only hope I helped in some way.
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Sachys: Also, just want to thank the community for their help and support through the last eighteen months whilst I've been an active member - its thanks to many of you, and the community at large that I've been able to cope with the challenges before this one. The easy one. Your gifts, your advice, your attempts to find me more paying work... all of it.
Well can I just say that this is a two-way street? Be easy with yourself throughout this process...

For this particular giveaway, I'll be in if only to honor the missing and the gone someplace else. Not many people lose loved one's in airplane crashes, it occurs to me, but I have. Then there are the more pedestrian type deaths - heart-disease, cancer, etc... It all takes a toll but it also increases one's awareness of the finiteness of life. If one uses this knowledge to pursue a happier life for oneself, then I guess it's worth it - dunno, didn't really get a vote ;-p
Well, not every father gets the love of his son, and for you to write like this of him, speaks volumes about him as well.

As for people I know who have passed, my grandmother passed before I was born, but from what I know of her as a person, I would have liked to have a relationship with her- she was tenacious and hardworking, and kind. But I am sure she had her faults, everyone does- we just make peace with that either while they're living or after the fact :]

Hope you get the solace you need to get through this and beyond, take care of yourself. Thanks to both the Sigil and you.

edit okay, I might as well be in for the giveaway! Thanks again!!
Post edited March 05, 2014 by cmdr_flashheart
Please count me in. I am sorry about your father, and I thank you for sharing the wonderful story of his life.
Your dad sounds like a badass. Any old photos to share?

As for tales of those who passed on, there was a kid at school who had muscular dystrophy, had to use a motorized wheelchair and all, but despite all of that he was the happiest, friendliest kid I knew. Anyway he left way too soon, but he also left a deep impression on me.
Post edited March 04, 2014 by oasis789
I'm in, thanks again my friend(s)!

Despite it being a sad occasion, I'm sure it's bittersweet. I know it's been a long and rough past year or two for him and yourself, and I hope for some peace and rest in it all.

My Grandmother was a great lady... She used to paint fancy dishes and won art awards for it. She was very talented. She was married to my Grandfather who died when I was in 9th grade, and he was also a great person. Both of them were honorable and showed love to my family in ways that I'll never forget. Anyway, back to my Grandmother...

She always had a sense of adventure. At age 75 she decided she wanted to get a corvette, so she went out and bought one. I had turned 16 and had officially gotten my drivers license that year, and she wanted me to try driving it on the highway. We were on a trip and she decided to take an exit, then pull off halfway down the on ranp to have me drive. She said "now, this has a lot of power. press very lightly on the accelerator or you will spin the tires." So, I lightly pressed the pedal and the tires spun, shooting some loose rocks backwards from the road's shoulder. I took off onto the highway. Within 400 feet I was going 85 miles an hour without realizing it. I looked down and was shocked at how fast I was going in such a short period of time and instantly slowed down. I apologized- "Sorry, I didn't mean to spin the tires! I pressed lightly on the pedal!"... Her response was "I know you did!" with a huge grin on her face, indicating that she knew they would, and had me do it intentionally. She the proceeded to tell me about all the fun she had with it. She ended up getting rid of it a few years later, saying "I don't want some people to think I'm some rich old lady all alone for robbing"... but really, I'm pretty sure it's cause she got way too many speeding tickets in it! She was pretty awesome!
Your dad sounds like quite a character, count me in thanks.
I am in, thanks.

The one loss of family that had a deep impact was that of my sister several years ago.
It was kinda unexpected and luckily her daughter was with us at the time.
She wasn't very close with the rest of the family because of issues but right before she passed away we tried to get closer (and also with my other sister), and i am probably the last who spoken to her on msn.
And in ways looking back, we were actually alot alike.
Post edited March 05, 2014 by lugum
in indeed thanks for the heads up and thanks for the GA ;)
In and thanks.
My dead relatives didn't have interesting life stories so there's nothing to tell, and thank God all of my friends are still alive.
You are rightly immensely proud of your father's life...he has lived his to its fullest.
It seems he has already shared so much of it with you, but you should set up a recorder or video camera and record some conversations of his stories, or other spur-of-the-moment discussions with him, especially about his youth and siblings and father and grandfather.

I'd like to be in, and I'll be sure to have a drink (non-alcoholic, unfortunately :P) in celebration of him today.
Hello, I'm Johnny Cash.

I'm in, please.