Posted February 03, 2014
s23021536: (JUMPS UP AND DOWN) Oi I have a question:
It seems to me that there are a fair number of atheists, or at least irreligious, people on the forum. Now, of course it depends on where you are in the world, but I think it is perhaps rather likely (or not very unlikely) that you might form part of a minority in your extended circle of friends and family. So my question is this: How do you your religious family members and friends feel about your absence of faith and having you around? Do they know? Are you a closeted atheist as it were? I wouldn't blame anyone if they were. I once read a study (forgot the name: something along the line of "Do you trust in atheists?") in which the study presented evidence towards the statement that atheists are the least trusted group in America, and I don't think it is restricted to America. Its not an absolutely damning study though : the sample sizes were quite small - most studies were with groups of 150ish people.
Haven't answered that. But no, no problem with believers friends, family, or others. Actually I have more often tension with atheists on crusade than with believers. And when I argued aggressively with believers it was about political stances (backed by their beliefs, but this is arbitrary, as other believers back the opposite stance with their beliefs). It seems to me that there are a fair number of atheists, or at least irreligious, people on the forum. Now, of course it depends on where you are in the world, but I think it is perhaps rather likely (or not very unlikely) that you might form part of a minority in your extended circle of friends and family. So my question is this: How do you your religious family members and friends feel about your absence of faith and having you around? Do they know? Are you a closeted atheist as it were? I wouldn't blame anyone if they were. I once read a study (forgot the name: something along the line of "Do you trust in atheists?") in which the study presented evidence towards the statement that atheists are the least trusted group in America, and I don't think it is restricted to America. Its not an absolutely damning study though : the sample sizes were quite small - most studies were with groups of 150ish people.
So. I've had cool discussion with priests (one who 'gets' atheism and its implication better than most atheists I know), with Christian friends (a long discussion on god that ended with me giving him arguments for god existence and him arguing against the existence of god - such swap in conversation demands a bit of mutual trust and ease, I suppose), and with most people it's not even a subject of discussion, past a couple of sentences we've said it all and ceased to care about it.
I know believers, I know no religious nuts, or litteral bible readers, and have no ultraconservatives amongst my friends. Most people around me, or in my circles, are atheists, some of them very self-satisfied, intolerant and hateful. If I was religious, I suppose i'd have access to their religious counterparts.
All in all, this is Switzerland. A secular society. No religion war here. But, again, not much creationism either.
Post edited February 03, 2014 by Telika